I am not the sociable type and the girl I confessed my love eventually said she needed somebody with "more fun in their lives." Advice, please?
Q. hey everyone, i'm sure you have come across this question many times by now, and i'm sure that some of you could actually help me. I have a problem, a socializing problem, and its getting on my nerves. a lot of close people think i'm boring and t...
A. 9 December 2007: take yourself out more often...you would see what you are missing and learn the hard way...dats the only way you would appreciate outspokenness.... (read in full...)
Some days I'm sure she likes me...others I am not so sure.
Q. I'm so confused! There is a girl at my school that I really like, but I don't know if she likes me in the same way. We have been friends for a while, and I find myself only wanting to talk to her the entire day.every day I walk her to her class an...
A. 9 December 2007: Hello there,
Don't get me wrong if I ask how old are you?
She takes you for a friend and nothing more...if she has some feelings for you..she will always show it all the time around U. Don't you think she talks to U jux 2 get at someone feel... (read in full...)
How can I be myself around guys, I'm too shy and I hate it!!
Q. hi im 14, and very shy.its mostly around guys. everyone always says that your shyness will decrease in time, and that i should just be myself around members of the opposite sex. well i just cant be myself. i always feel as though i have to be someo...
A. 9 December 2007: Hello there,
how about letting situation bring you both close enough to talk....... (read in full...)
My ex's mixed signals are driving me insane.
Q. Basically my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. We were together for 2 years and i'd been madly in love with her for a year before we got together, when we finally did everything was amazing and she was in love with me just as much as i was with ...
A. 8 December 2007: Well, it is obvious where she intend going to after dumping you seems not to work out well for her, so she need save the bird at hand -you- ,scout for better opportunities around and definitely drop you again if a certained relationship comes ... (read in full...)
He thinks I don't trust him.
Q. i recently asked amother question about my boyfriend being a rent boy , you see the thing is that ive been reading his texts and he now knows that i have and he thinks i dont trust him what do i do ???...
A. 8 December 2007: Giving a guy any form of doubt gradually makes him get tired of a relationship. It is natural to doubt a guy but if you must follow your instint then do it smart...don't be caught. But if you want to be polite, then do as the above friend instr... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I have done anything wrong...so why should I apologise??
Q. I was seeing this guy on and off for 3 years. It ended badly with me never wanting to see him again. He kept trying to start things up again and I gave in about 3 months ago. Things were great, we have been dating and having a great time. I finall...
A. 8 December 2007: Hello there, In a relationship, understanding must come into play from the onset till its end. If he doesn't understand you enough to know how you stand for your right anywhere, then there is a problem because for that long....3 years.., he wasn... (read in full...)
To boys: are you afraid of being turned down by a very pretty girl, therefore prefer someone "in your league" ?
Q. Guys please help me. Is it true that some guys are scared of being knocked down by a very pretty girl and that you go for someone who is slightly more in your 'league' ?? I have friends who are told they are pretty the whole time and are not s...
A. 8 December 2007: Lady, Here is what you need to know about guys; Firstly, no guy want to be tagged ''a failure'' so they go for what they can control because there is no gurantee that they can retain you when a stronger competitor comes around. Seco... (read in full...)
How can I be myself around guys, I'm too shy and I hate it!!
Q. hi im 14, and very shy.its mostly around guys. everyone always says that your shyness will decrease in time, and that i should just be myself around members of the opposite sex. well i just cant be myself. i always feel as though i have to be someo...
A. 8 December 2007: Hello there, The only way to overcome your problem is to face it,(speaking from experience, i guess). If you always feel shy around guys you like, it is simply because you tend to ''want to be perfect'' around them which makes you ''not be yo... (read in full...)
I can't just drop my ex...how can I go and see him without my bf getting in a mood??
Q. I am still good friends with my previous boyfriend who I was with for a year. He has some personal issues such as depression, and as one of the few people that he really trusts, I like him to know that I'm there for him. However, my new boyfrien...
A. 8 December 2007: Interesting how women think. How would it go down with you when you find out that your BF still ''sees'' his ex-? I know you generally want to be nice but it will definitely affect your present relationship and as far as I am concerned, you a... (read in full...)
Wondering if he likes me?
Q. Hi, I am stuck in a really hard situation. I am currently with someone, and the one who I think about has someone too. We met on his visit day to the college, then this month he started, we started to talk again and everything is fine. But...
A. 8 December 2007: Hello there, His continious looking without taking any approaching action kinda mean he is not yet sure of what he is about getting himself into, or he is not yet confident enough to make advances. You should give him a surprise ''green ligh... (read in full...)
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