There's an age difference between us but I would like to get to know this person better. Should I try?
Q. There is someone who I would like to spend time with and ask if they would be up for meeting me to get to know me .this may seem really easy for some people but for me it isn't . up to now its the first time ive really ever wanted to see if I could ...
A. 20 August 2019: I know I also responded to a similar post at least more than once and I also feel like you’re the same girl. At this point, it’s an obsession. Stay away from this man period. You sound like you’re in like with your idea of this guy. Stop coming here ... (read in full...)
Why are these 2 men acting this way to me?
Q. Here's the sitch: I work at a large department store. Associates flirt and date constantly, so there's no stigma about it where I work. I had an eye contact flirtation going on for awhile with a security guy(B). He'd always do his rounds to pu...
A. 26 July 2019: Like* not land
I don’t know why my autocorrect has to do such weird things. ???????... (read in full...)
What are the chances they are having an emotional affair?
Q. We purchased a home for my son and his fiancée and their daughter with his trust. We have been renovating the home to have it ready for them by August . I noticed my husband becoming more and more distant and him working different hours than he ...
A. 26 July 2019: Wow, hold on there.
I feel like there’s more here you’re not telling us. Like the other replier said, it makes zero sense to be able to text 5000 in a month between them. Was that a typo or an exaggeration?
You didn’t I]even clarify what the... (read in full...)
I'm interested in an older guy, how do I find out if he is married?
Q. for the past two months or so ive been wanting to speak to someone who is older then me , a lot of people who ive spoken to about this have give me mixed opinions . its the first time ive ever wanted to speak to someone older , he is older then me ...
A. 26 July 2019: BTW I didn’t mean to post a response twice. I was wondering why my other response was taking longer than usual to get posted so I typed something else out. ... (read in full...)
Why are these 2 men acting this way to me?
Q. Here's the sitch: I work at a large department store. Associates flirt and date constantly, so there's no stigma about it where I work. I had an eye contact flirtation going on for awhile with a security guy(B). He'd always do his rounds to pu...
A. 26 July 2019: What’s happening? Child’s play, that’s what.
Is this a joke or are you really this naive? Either this is all in your head or they’re messing with you. You’re all adults. Either figure out your feelings or move on with your business.
You eve... (read in full...)
I'm interested in an older guy, how do I find out if he is married?
Q. for the past two months or so ive been wanting to speak to someone who is older then me , a lot of people who ive spoken to about this have give me mixed opinions . its the first time ive ever wanted to speak to someone older , he is older then me ...
A. 26 July 2019: I agree with KeW. This post seems very familiar. There was a post about a female your age in the same country regarding her former professor. If this is the same female, please stop trying to contact the man. Even if you’re not the same girl, this ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in an older guy, how do I find out if he is married?
Q. for the past two months or so ive been wanting to speak to someone who is older then me , a lot of people who ive spoken to about this have give me mixed opinions . its the first time ive ever wanted to speak to someone older , he is older then me ...
A. 24 July 2019: The way you wrote this was genuinely confusing. Here is what I got out of it. You want to get to know this random guy, including his marital status, but you just want a friendship with him. This sounds really bizarre and concerning. Why do you need ... (read in full...)
I think something off with this online guy do I talk to him about it?
Q. I met a guy online through a language exchange app, where you can talk to people from all over the world. I think throughout our communication i have always had thoughts that something was off. We moved off the app and that's where it all started ...
A. 21 July 2019: Listen to your gut. This guy is flaking on you and you basically said yourself that there have been several red flags. People can be whoever they want to be online. Just because he says nice things to you doesn’t mean he is an actual nice person. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he's taking Viagra?
Q. Hello everyone I reconnected with my ex recently and everything has been going great. We haven't been together in about 8 years so its like getting to know him all over again. He is 28. The problem is when we decided to have intercourse the ...
A. 21 July 2019: You sound like you don’t understand anything about an erection. It’s common for males to be nervous during sex just as females are. Of course it’s likely for him to not get erect because of being nervous. Guys can’t will an erection on command. Ever ... (read in full...)
My insecurities are making me wonder if I should make things official with him or just break up?
Q. I've been dating a guy for about 9 months who's 20 years older than me. I've been taking it slow because I was married for 7 years before this and I've been a bit nervous about a new relationship after my husband cheated on me (resulting in the ...
A. 21 July 2019: I know I’m late here, but I’m still throwing in my two cents... if you’re still with him.
You should ask him to introduce you to his female friends. Observe how they act and how he acts around them. If there are questionable mannerisms, then you... (read in full...)
Should I tell my former professor how I feel about him?
Q. its been about 6 six years now since I left college and I got along really well with my maths teacher and I started to develop strong passionate feelings towards him , I was aware it was not appropriate so I have never told anyone or him . just...
A. 21 July 2019: I realize that I’m late to the party here, but I wanted to check in to say that I hope you didn’t take action. In many cases, these feelings of passion you think you’re having for him are being confused with admiration/idolization. He’s getting paid ... (read in full...)
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