How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?
Q. Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing ...
A. 31 December 2008: Stop doubting yourself; you aren't doing anything wrong or suffering from paranoia. That would mean that there is no evidence of something going on, but in this case, it’s right in front of your face.
Your girlfriend's ex seems to have given he... (read in full...)
Is my need for attention driving him away?
Q. On saturday, my boyfriend and i had plans to go to the movies. We were walking around the mall, then went to look at movie times. There were 2 showings, 7:15 and 9. It was already 7, so i suggested 9 so that we could eat first. He said we could just ...
A. 29 December 2008: You may have more feelings for him than he does for you. My advice is to balance your relationship with him; don't make him the center of your world because he notices it I'm sure. He probably likes you, but you are too clingy. Try making friends ... (read in full...)
How long do you have to pray to find God?
Q. What's the longest time somebody has prayed to find God? What if someone gave up 3 seconds before God was to answer his prayers? Would he be a fool?...
A. 29 December 2008: I'm not sure what you mean, but it sounds like maybe you are seeking an answer in response to your prayers. To answer your question, you can't put a time limit on God because he gives you what you need when you need it, and he does it in a way that ... (read in full...)
Does my ex still like me...?
Q. On Christmas Eve I was driving back home and saw an ex getting out of his car near my local supermarket (I'd not seen him for 5 months). We both waved and I must admit I got a few butterflies in my tummy because I still hold a torch for him even ...
A. 29 December 2008: Girl, you better run and run fast. You already said two key things...he is a womanizer and has done bad things in the past. Please do not let his charm soften your heart for him. Use your brain not your heart! This is a wake up call.... (read in full...)
My guy and his best female friend have weird relationship
Q. I have been dating this guy for two months and one of his best friends is a girl. I know her and she is nice to me but there is something i cant really put my finger on it but something weird about their relationship. She has a husband and a child ...
A. 29 December 2008: This relationship sounds like the recipe for heartbreak. You really deserve better. They have an emotional bond, which is very common between friends of the opposite sex. Even if they stay friends forever, you don't want another female to be first ... (read in full...)
My ex is texting me and being a real jerk
Q. I'm really lost right now. Okay so me and my ex have been textin since xmas eve, he was soo nice and so sweet the first few days then things started to go down hill. He wouldnt call when I asked him eventhough he promised he would. I could understa...
A. 29 December 2008: Sounds like he's got you right were he wants you, vulnerable and available. He knows what he's doing that’s why he was so nice to you when he mysteriously called you out of nowhere, and then, you took the bate. What did he do? He disappeared on you. ... (read in full...)
I don't understand what he means
Q. Hey aunts. Ok so me and this guy have known each other for 4 yrs and we really good friends. At first we liked each other but due to certain things and people it ended. He knows that i still like him. Not long ago i stopped talking to him coz he ...
A. 29 December 2008: He sounds like he may be taking advantage of your feelings by expecting that you will give him sex, and the sneaky part is...is that he is trying to make you request it like he's doing you a favor. If he truly liked you, after four years, he would ... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 24 December 2008: Yes, only if the qualities that you like in a mate are not in your friend of the opposite sex. If so, you have to very strong, so that you don't react to your attraction. I have only one male friend that I am still to this day not attracted to ... (read in full...)
Am I taking advantage of him?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years....I love him very much ......we broke up for about a year and he moved to fl we kept in touch and i missed him so much while he was gone.....then we decided to meet up after a year in 2 months and i ...
A. 24 December 2008: Girl bye. I would have been back home so fast. Look, it seems nice and romantic living with your boo, but you come first. Go home and finish school first and both of you can work on yourselves before you jump into an apartment together. Then later ... (read in full...)
Midlife crisis or the end of a relationship?
Q. Is it possible to love someone but be repulsed by them sexually and continually dream of a life without them? Could this just be a midlife crisis or does it signify the end of a relationship? ...
A. 24 December 2008: Of course it is possible. A lot of women resent or are disgusted by their partner but stay in the relationship because they love them. In order to tell if the relationship is over depends on why you are repulsed by them and if the relationship is ... (read in full...)
Midlife crisis or the end of a relationship?
Q. Is it possible to love someone but be repulsed by them sexually and continually dream of a life without them? Could this just be a midlife crisis or does it signify the end of a relationship? ...
A. 24 December 2008: Of course it is possible. A lot of women resent or are disgusted by their partner but stay in the relationship because they love them. In order to tell if the relationship is over depends on why you are repulsed by them and if the relationship is ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend likes his brother's girlfriend!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I think he is into his brother's girlfriend. She has been dating my boyfriend's brother for 4 years now and she is at his house everyday to see her boyfriend. I understand that they have a ...
A. 22 December 2008: Sometimes being confident in yourself, your relationship and knowing that you are strong in your spot might redirect your boyfriend's attention to you. For instance, when you are with them, lighten up and joke along with them even if it seems that ... (read in full...)
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