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Am I doing it wrong?

Q.   I ve been dateing this guy for a few weeks I gave him oral sex today he is the first guy I have ever given a b j to anyway while I was doing it he started pushing the back of my head down on it further and makeing me suck iyt faster do all men do ...

A.   4 August 2010: no it doesnt mean your doing it wrong.most guys like it when you go deeper. hes just establishes a rhythm he enjoys.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's ex who is the mother of his children is becoming a problem in our relationship, what should I do?

Q.   What do I do if it bugs me if my boyfriends ex which is also the mother of his two children calls and texts non stop everyday even while I'm with him? and she knows it and she calls and says he needs to come and get the kids now and that if he ...

A.   3 August 2010: This is something that is so difficult.I am in the same situation with my husband and his ex wife. What you have to do is be strong if you really love your husnad. Stand by him through whatever because i bet hes hurting that he cant be with his kids ... (read in full...)

How can you know if love will last?

Q.   Can u tell me what love means to u I'm so confused I don't really know. I know I don't love the guy that I'm with now and I'm a bit dissapointed cuz I thought I loved him I always wanted to be with him I felt something everytime we kissed it just ...

A.   3 August 2010: To me love is the most delicate and beautiful thing ever. When your in love theres no other girl or guy out there for you because all you see is the person your in love with.Love is not selfish so when your in love the other person is the most ... (read in full...)

Having trouble deciding whether to settle down with him.

Q.   I'm a teenager and I normally don't take my relationships to seriously. The last relationship I was in lasted for about two and a half months. Unfortunatly I got really attatched to him!!! On the fourth of July he told me that his parents were ...

A.   3 August 2010: At this age you shouldnt think about settling down.Relationships are hard work that requiere consideration for the other person.Love is something that you cant think about yourself anymore.you have to think about the other person.If he says that he ... (read in full...)

Overwhelmed with feelings, is this more than a crush?

Q.   Hi. How do I tell if what I'm feeling is a crush or something more? Since about two years I've grown closer to someone who was at school with me. I really like him but I don't understand what I'm feeling. I've never felt remotely attracted to any...

A.   3 August 2010: you obviously like him a lot.You nkow that when you cant get someone out of your mind and get jealous when other girls talk to him.I would say let things happen because if its meant to be then it will happen and everything will fall in its place.... (read in full...)

Cheating ex is lying about our break up

Q.   I caught my long term girlfriend in the act of cheating. This is the second time with a different guy then before. Last time she begged,cried and had me believing it was a mistake. I have cut all ties. She is now lying to everyone about our break ...

A.   3 August 2010: Shes hurt that you left her and sees what she lost thats why shes so mad but she had it coming to her for cheating.If things keep happening go to the police and tell them whats going on maybe even get a restraining order if it gets worst. Obviously ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend's woman

Q.   So I feel like the most terrible human being because of this, i've only told one person of this but I need the advice of someone who has delt with it....I'm completely and totally in love with my best friends wife, she's absolutely the perfect ...

A.   28 June 2010: This is very difficult. I was in a similar situation as you. It was the hardest choice ever but i believe that you should follow your heart. It might seem selfish but for your own sake i believe it would be the best to tell her how you feel. But if ... (read in full...)

He thinks I'm a bitch. Should I break up with him?

Q.   ok my thinks im a bitch kuz at his party he said i was being a bitch and i really dont know where that came from but thats not the point the point is that he thinks im a bitch and now he feels that im pushing his away and he keeps saying that he ...

A.   28 June 2010: I dont think you should break up with him cause he called you that. I think you might be over reacting. Just take time to think about it and time will tell. He abviously wants to be with you if hes begging you but if you dont feel the same about him ... (read in full...)

How do I trust him after he lied to me?

Q.   How do you forgive the man you love after they've lied to you? He was texting a girl he met at the bar he was working at, and never told me about it, although it was fairly innocent, I still feel betrayed. I love him so much but I can't seem to let ...

A.   28 June 2010: hi! it is very hard to trust someone who has lied to you but i think if you really love him give him another chance.Make it clear to him anf tell him how you feel.Communication is the key to having a good and healthy relationship.... (read in full...)

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