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writes:How do you forgive the man you love after they've lied to you? He was texting a girl he met at the bar he was working at, and never told me about it, although it was fairly innocent, I still feel betrayed. I love him so much but I can't seem to let go of his lie. How do I let it go before I push him away??
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reader, ozzkk  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 dont !!u cant trust him!.. he's a liar. he just proved it. lying is a personality trait. he wont stop cos he cant. trust me u will be writing a post on here saying 'do i trust him again' because he will just keep lying. i'm not saying he's cheating though. he just is a liar.
so is my boyfriend and he's in his 40's now!!! he lies about jokes he receives from a girl who works next door to his work. i've seen the joke and its innocent but he lied to me when i asked who sent it. stupid!!! i know they're friends but he still lied. i told him i already saw that she sent it and he denied it. asked why he is still lying and still denied it. denied it for a whole week!! until he confessed and apologised... :( goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): I wouldn't push him away for texting. It's very common guys and girls to text each other nowadays, even if they've got boyfriends or girlfriends. I wouldn't have thought it was something I had to let my girlfriend know either, if I was texting someone else. It's just something society's become accepting of. However, if you decide you don't like who he's texting, and have asked him to stop, then he should respect that, and if he can't do like 20 years ago when people didn't text, and not text certain people, then there's something wrong. Now that he knows, give him a chance, since he probably never had any intentions, and never thought anything of it. It is kind of funny how some people use texting as a means to communicate constantly with others they know they would otherwise be crossing the line to communicate so often with.. Tell him what you think, though, and he should be able to respect that, just like he knows that phoning that same girl to voice chat would piss you off just as much as texting her, since there's no difference.. trying to communicate is trying to communicate.
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reader, neptune  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 hi! it is very hard to trust someone who has lied to you but i think if you really love him give him another chance.Make it clear to him anf tell him how you feel.Communication is the key to having a good and healthy relationship.
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