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How often do people see or contact their boyfriends and girlfriends each week on average?

Q.   I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average? And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :...

A.   3 June 2008: it depends on the relationship that you guys have, usually in the first months you will see much of each other but there is no rule, when you miss him you call him,if you miss him you also ask to see him, but dont get too attached it gas got long ... (read in full...)

My bf is worrying me about giving him a child!

Q.   hi, am in a relationship with my bf for about 3 years now but all my bf say is he want a child within the next year but i ask him to see my parents which he say he is not yet ready. so am confuse should give birth before he see my parents or is ...

A.   3 June 2008: Girlfriend if he really loved you and really wanted you to be his special part he will meet your parents and marry you, can you imagine how its like to have kids while not married, trust me i know you dont want to be in that situation, you might ... (read in full...)

When I ask him about us, he always says he wants things to stay as they already are - but I'm not happy with the little time we spend together!

Q.   im a 41 yr old woman, whose been in a 2 yr relationship with my bf, hes 60, we both been married and divorced with children from our marrages, his children are grown, but his younger son is still living with him, hes 18 and 2 of my children are ...

A.   3 June 2008: Sweaty your man might be 60 but he still have commitment issues a nd the way you are doing it shows desparation in his eyes that is why he is going to continue doing it, there is no man who is a commitment type but it is the feeling that he feels ... (read in full...)

I suffer from a tremendous amount of guilt and shame for having sex before marriage! Will guys hate me?

Q.   I feel rather confused. I've always believed in God (Im a Christian/Anglican) but have never really been to church much but still believe in God and also the morals and values from my religion. To me thats the main thing that draws me to it, I ...

A.   3 June 2008: God says that there is no condemnation for those who are in him because all their sins are forgiven, God fogives you the moment you confess that you have done something wrong,the gulit remains inus but he has forgotten already, and he says he loves ... (read in full...)

He says he will not forgive my having cheated unless I do something amazingly big??!

Q.   ok well,im only 14 but me and my bf where going out for nearly 7 months, at the begining of the relation ship wasnt very faithful to him, he found out about a few of the times that i cheated on him soon after it happened. and then for the next few ...

A.   3 June 2008: Firsly if he is willing to forgive you there wont be conditions, that means he is trying to blacmail you, you have done something wrong of coz you are only 14, show him how sorry you are,sit down and talk to him but there is no need for him to make ... (read in full...)

I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick!

Q.   I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick that other people have watched her having sex. She is a great girl who all my family love, and my mom has made it clear that she would be happy for her to join ...

A.   28 May 2008: Why are you judging her,dont you have things that you did that you are no so very proud of?Dont judge her instead try to walk a mile in her shoes and you will understand.We are quick to jugde but fail to understand, i am sure there is no one who ... (read in full...)

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