Am I being rational in giving him some space and hoping he will come around, or should I move on?
Q. I have been dating a man for about 20 months. In March he was promoted and it has been very stressful for him, including traveling a great deal of time. He was recently gone on a six week trip to seven different cities with only a day or two rest in ...
A. 10 September 2008: I agree with Sappygirl, he has definetly moved on and it sounds like he was very blunt about it too. He also gave many signs (weight loss, traveling all the time, lack of sex drive), of the impeding doom.
I'm sorry to say but it sounds like he ... (read in full...)
He said he loves me, but the emails to his ex say otherwise. How can he love us both?
Q. hi everyone...recently i was at my guy's place. we were on the computer together, he then had to take a toilet break. So i was alone there on his computer. I saw his private email inbox and out of my curiosity, I checked it. I was shocked t...
A. 10 September 2008: Are you sure that he didn't want you to discover the email because he did leave you alone with his computer and teenage boys don't find breaking up easy to do so this may have been a way for him to break up by allowing you to find it and break up ... (read in full...)
I cannot be comfortable with my lover's past, yet we may have a future. What can I do?
Q. my gf and i have been together for a year now, and all the while i have been trying to deal with the demons of her past, namely the 11 other men she has slept with. she was at an all female boarding school till the age of 18, and between then and ...
A. 10 September 2008: That sounds like so much pain to allow yourself to keep going through. You seem to value your past monagamous life style and yet you are with a woman who has experienced sexual encounters with many men. You say she is only your second but truly, ... (read in full...)
Why do I still love him despite of his abuses? How do I deal with the conflicting feelings? How do I stop being in denial?
Q. I know im probably going to sound crazy or something when I say how I feel about my ex abusive bf, but its how I feel and what bothers me most is how my feelins conflict each other. On one hand, I have so much anger and hurt and cant believe he ...
A. 10 September 2008: Keep in mind that time heals. Someday you will look back on that relationship and be thankful that he left you and allowed you to move forward to a more beautiful relationship in the future. Please forgive me for quoting but Joel Osteen says tha... (read in full...)
My husband says his money is his and doesn't give me and the children any. Should I give up on this marriage?
Q. I have a question. My husband works 10 hours a day 6 days a work , he never spends time with me and my children. And to top it off I am home this summer with the kids and no money to go anywere. HE says that the money he makes is his and I cant have ...
A. 10 September 2008: Yes, I would leave your marriage because he doesn't seem to value you or your children but I would wait until the kids are in school. That way you can get a job, start saving your "leave" money and begin to get on your feet to support your ... (read in full...)
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