What should I do about this seriously selfish relative?
Q. i would greatly appreciate any views on this situation. My mother has an aunt who i can not stand. She is the most selfish narrow minded women i have ever met. Completely opposite her sister, my nan, who is such a beautiful person. When ...
A. 5 February 2013: Live your life girly. It's not your fight. I know you want your family to get along and everyone get together, have a good cry and forgive and forget, but no matter how well intentioned you are, you are dealing with DECADES of family issues that ... (read in full...)
He's making me choose, him or my dream, what do I do?
Q. Hey there guys/gals. I am in need of help :/ Let me explain: I am 18 and have a boyfriend of a little over a year and known him for about 6 years. We both have dreams and aspirations as many others although he's not very fond of mine. My dream is...
A. 8 November 2012: I think it's less about the military and more about his fear of losing you. For some people, distance can kill a relationship. He may feel the idea of not having you physically near him in his life would be far more painful than if the two of you ... (read in full...)
I've become so used to being depressed that its become comforting!
Q. k,i know this is a really odd question. but i have been wondering for soo long and i was hoping someone could answer it for me. well, i have spent the majority of my life depressed. part of elementry, middle school, and highschool. it did...
A. 6 November 2012: As someone who feels more comfortable in darkness as well, I get where you're coming from. I too was severely bullied in school and later at some of my jobs when I became an adult.
Talk to your parents about seeing a psychologist. It doesn't ... (read in full...)
Why had he changed? Why doesn't he care for my feelings?
Q. Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy for 3 months now. In the beginning he was so sweet, texting me all the time, telling me " I love you so much, ur the the one I miss u so much .. I waiting on u here no matter how long ...
A. 6 November 2012: This is why I hate long distance relationships. I had one several months ago and lasted just as long as yours. What makes ldr's difficult is that you're relying solely on text's/phone calls to develop intimacy. That's fine if you're planning on ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my wife's 22 year old niece that I want to be with her?
Q. For the past year or so I have dreampt of being with my wifes 22 yr old neice, Her and I spent a weekend together in July and the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife. Ironically, I do believe it came from her too as when she was ...
A. 6 November 2012: The age difference? I could care less. It's normal to fantasize, at the very least to find her attractive. But what is wrong with you? You're MARRIED! If you can't control yourself, get divorced and go after someone else. Stay away from her family. ... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 1 November 2012: You're right chigirl, I should clarify it with her and I will. I guess why I've put it off is that I like when she flirts with me. Part of me doesn't want her to stop, even though it's not good for my heart and my head calls me an "idiot" for doing ... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 1 November 2012: As far as blaming a girl for being "played", I agree that it's a pretty scummy thing to think or say to someone who genuinely had feelings for a person who winded up using them. No one deserves to be used no matter how foolish or naive they may have ... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 31 October 2012: I find your your reply offensive, chigirl. I don't think I should do whatever I want to with a girl if she flirts with me and nothing in my posts indicated that. But when you flirt with someone you're telling the other person, "I'm interested in ... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 30 October 2012: Ok ladies and gents here's what happened. I talked with her today and asked her out but she said she'd be busy with work that night. Alright. We talked a little more and of course she still kept flirting with me(avoiding eye contact, playing with ... (read in full...)
Am I being just unbelievably dense and she's just waiting on me to make move?
Q. Hello everyone, The other night I was at a party that some friends of mine were hosting and this mutual female friend of ours and comes by and asks to sit on my lap. So I said yes. Later, I told her to get up cause I had to go to the restroom an...
A. 29 October 2012: Thanks for the replies everyone. I'll let you know how it goes in a couple days. ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my former teacher how I feel and risk ruining our friendship?
Q. I am a freshmen in college now about to be 19. For the past 4 years I spent in high school, I grew extremely close with my high school band director: single, no kids, late 20's. Problem: I have developed STRONG feelings for him, perhaps even fallen ...
A. 29 October 2012: I see nothing wrong with telling him your feelings. If this man had such a positive impact on your life as a teacher and friend, it's understandable for you to wonder if something more is possible. That being said, there are several things t... (read in full...)
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