Hubby and I fantasizing about affection with other people. Good idea or no?
Q. My husband and I have been together for 10 years and married for a total of 5 years.We are both very open minded people and honest with each other.Marriage is great and since we almost grew up together we are totally bonded and secure in our ...
A. 15 April 2011: The only con I can see is that your feelings may change once the act has been commited; what seems appealing now may well feel otherwise once either you or your husband has actually kissed someone. What you cannot predict is the 'third person's ... (read in full...)
Mid-life crisis, depression or right to feel this way?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for nearly 17 and we have a young son. We recently went through counselling on account of me getting seriously interested in sex over and above anything I've been interested in before. The ...
A. 8 April 2011: Thanks to everyone who replied (including my wife!). A few thoughts: @Libra1963: I'm trying my damndest to make all of this work. Part of the problem is that during the problem years, I took to 'self soothing' and not relying on anyone else f... (read in full...)
He seen me in my bikini, got a boner and now he's angry at me!
Q. Ok so the other week I went on holiday to the seaside and another family who are really close. So on the last day I wanted to go swimming but the only other person who wanted to was a boy my age from the other family. So after I got changed into my ...
A. 8 April 2011: I have to agree with the other answers; he's embarassed and angry with himself, not you. Speaking as former teenage boy myself it happens and it lead to many a time sat hunched over in a chair desperately trying to hide an otherwise obvious tent.
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I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ...
A. 8 April 2011: Adviceneone,
Sorry, didn't mean to give the impression I was trying to put the orginal poster off; far from it. The experience I had was amongst the best I've ever had in my life, my wife too. I was just trying to point out that having the disc... (read in full...)
I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ...
A. 7 April 2011: Speaking from experience, the first thing is to discuss every possible outcome. Everything from you're both having the time of your lives, to one of you is seriously enjoying it and is getting off on it all and the other really wants to call a halt. ... (read in full...)
I want to see my husband with another woman!
Q. i want to see my husband making out with another girl, the thought turns me on so much.Is it normal to feel that way?...
A. 7 March 2011: Well, I did recently have a long time fantasy of watching my wife with another woman fulfilled, so what you want is unusual but hardly unheard of. There are quite a few things to consider though: Why do you want this? Are you happy with just ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions? Why will my Gf not pleasure me even though I pleasure her?
Q. My girl and i have been going out together since we graduated from high school for almost 3 years now. she was a virgin and so was I, we have had sex in the past and we have gone through good things and bad things in our relationship but our love ...
A. 20 February 2011: Man, that's harsh. Whilst she is absolutely entitled to not do anything she doesn't want to do, her constant rejection of your wants and needs must be awful (been there myself). Feeling 'unwanted' is exactly the right word for it. It does sound as ... (read in full...)
Not sure what to think about wife's spanking-fantasy...
Q. My wife wants me to spank her before/during sex. This probably sounds like every guy's dream but there is a bit of a sinister twist that is making me feel a bit uncomfortable. When I asked her where the spanking fantasy had come from, she said t...
A. 19 February 2011: My own personal feeling is that all is well and your concern for your wife's well-being is admirable. Having my own sexual 'thing' (voyeurism) which is also rooted in a series of events as a teenager, re-enacting the events with a loved, trusted ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend used his sex toy to masturbate AFTER having sex with me!
Q. The other day my bf woke me to have sex. We did it and it was very good and after we both took a nap. When we woke I needed to run to the store for a few things. When I came back I noticed the bed comforter was pushed all the way to my side. He ...
A. 12 February 2011: I can understand that you might feel a little insecure, but there is no serious cause for concern. Maybe he shouldn't have been quite so obvious in front if you, but as others have said he's taking care if his own needs rather than pestering you or ... (read in full...)
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