Porn crazed soon to be deployed husband wants sex tape!
Q. My husband of one year is getting deployed in a few months. We just had a son. While pregnant, he was always looking at porn. It hurt me so badly. We had several talks (he did it more than once) and he FINALLY stopped right before the baby was born. ...
A. 8 February 2009: Hey there, Just looked back in and saw your clarification. Please don't think you are an idiot. You aren't. You are really really stuck here. On the one hand you feel uncomfortable, and on the other hand you are wanting to make your husband happy.... (read in full...)
Should I have to be the one to say "Yes I want you stop seeing other people"?
Q. I am currently in a non-exclusive relationship. I feel that I am not able to continue this way because I am falling for him and fear being hurt when he is with another girl. I told him this and he said that if I gave the word he would stop seeing ...
A. 30 January 2009: You go girl. Keep it up. The path to self-confidence is traveled one tiny bravery at a time.... (read in full...)
Should I keep going with her or just dump her?
Q. I been sorta dating (well starting to) this chick and we hang like all day and shit but she has been sorta like edgy when I try to get close or put me arm around her, I get this werid vibe and she sorta moves away and doesn't like hugs back much ...
A. 30 January 2009: Sorry, dude. No Mr. Sensitive today. My gut says run.... (read in full...)
Should I have to be the one to say "Yes I want you stop seeing other people"?
Q. I am currently in a non-exclusive relationship. I feel that I am not able to continue this way because I am falling for him and fear being hurt when he is with another girl. I told him this and he said that if I gave the word he would stop seeing ...
A. 30 January 2009: Different people need to hear things in different ways. Perhaps he needs to hear it REALLY clearly.
So say it really clearly. A relationship that starts with "I don't want to say it, you say it" isn't really going to last long anyway.
Relat... (read in full...)
Porn crazed soon to be deployed husband wants sex tape!
Q. My husband of one year is getting deployed in a few months. We just had a son. While pregnant, he was always looking at porn. It hurt me so badly. We had several talks (he did it more than once) and he FINALLY stopped right before the baby was born. ...
A. 30 January 2009: This is a tough one. You're stuck between something you're not happy with him doing and something you're not happy doing yourself.
I have friends in the military and deployment is hard on every family. You make it work for you as a couple in whate... (read in full...)
Have I advertised "I want sex ASAP" because I talked about birth control?
Q. To start off- I'm 19 and a virgin and my boyfriend is 25 and not. We were talking last night about contraception and I told him that I've just started the pill perscription to be on the safe side but want to use a condom as well. He was a bit odd ...
A. 30 January 2009: Well, since you've laid it out so clearly, let's continue in that vein. Getting to the sex part... I think you are very very smart to be open and honest about contraception. Remember - you are not promising anything, you are simply saying ... (read in full...)
I just want to know what's wrong with me and find a way to stop feeling upset.
Q. I'm 19 years old and have a lot of worries at the moment, to list a few: *my dad was made redundant just before xmas, he's trying so hard to get a job but can't, our family arent very wealthy anyway and although my parents always try and stay hap...
A. 30 January 2009: There is NOTHING wrong with you! You are feeling irrational and out of control for completely rational and understandable reasons. We will all have times in our lives that just suck. There's no doubt that this is one of those times for you. Y... (read in full...)
How can I forgive him? Where do I begin to find the forgiveness over the anger and pain?
Q. So I'm going to try and be brief with my history. I am married to the absolute love of my life. He has done everything completely right...Up to this point. Back in october 08 I took in a 17 year old girl who was heading down a path I knew all too ...
A. 30 January 2009: How terrible, for both of you. It's clear that there were challenges coming up in the relationship, and that both of your affairs are likely symptoms of a growing distance between you. Icelordess is quite right. Counseling. Now. Don't wait even ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is being manipulated by another man. How do I get her to let him go?
Q. I'll start by giving a little bit of detail about my girlfriend and I. We're both 22 years old, we have been dating very seriously for four years, and we are pretty much best friends. We have never had any big fights or rough spots in the ...
A. 30 January 2009: I'm glad you had the opportunity to get some of this out into an open forum. And it's great you had the strength to talk clearly and openly to her about your feelings. I'm also not going to sugar coat it: you say you respect her choices, but the... (read in full...)
Should I try to go out with her? Or just forget it?
Q. Hey. Okay, so I like this girl who is senior. I'm a sophamore. Senior and sophamore relationships happen a fair amount in our school (it's a small one), but she seems a bit beyond my uh level... I think she thinks I'm cute, but not in a "I wanna ...
A. 30 January 2009: SO...you start by saying you like her. I think that's a great place to begin. If you like her, and there were no other considerations, well, then, of course you'd ask her out. Of course there are always other considerations..... (read in full...)
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