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Should I keep going with her or just dump her?

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Question - (30 January 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2009)
A male Australia age 30-35, *x_khun writes:

I been sorta dating (well starting to) this chick and we hang like all day and shit but she has been sorta like edgy when I try to get close or put me arm around her, I get this werid vibe and she sorta moves away and doesn't like hugs back much except when *I* actually go up and give her hugs and she still flirts with guys and texts a lot and when I'm with her she says omg he's hot and shit to ramndon people so I asked her is everything okay with us coz you seem distant lately and she just replied with a yeh?? I'm not sure if she really is interested in me or just not used to me yet coz I'm thinking about ending it if she continues the flirting and stuff.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2009):

Talk to her about it when you see her.

xx

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A male reader, ex_khun Australia +, writes (30 January 2009):

ex_khun is verified as being by the original poster of the question

k so i shuld wait till we meet up again on sunday coz it prbly sound sbad askin her out through text ay lol

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A male reader, ex_khun Australia +, writes (30 January 2009):

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k so i shuld wait till we meet up again on sunday coz it prbly sound sbad askin her out through text ay lol

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A male reader, ex_khun Australia +, writes (30 January 2009):

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so would it be good if i just soprta set it straight wiv her n tell her i diont like it wen she flirting wiv other dudes n shit coz she keeps txtin me sayin we r fine n everythin is kewl

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A male reader, Mr. Sensitive Canada +, writes (30 January 2009):

Mr. Sensitive agony auntSorry, dude. No Mr. Sensitive today. My gut says run.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2009):

It sounds to me like she just sees you as a really good mate. Have you ever actually asked her out, or did you just get closer because you started hanging out like mates?

Ask her if she actually wants you to be her boyfriend or if she just sees you as a friend.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009):

Well, is she your girlfriend? Have you openly decided you have an exclusive relationship? I would clarify this and find out exactly what the deal is. She may not be aware that you want an exclusive relationship or not want that sort of thing. Talk to her about it and if she agrees to have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, then she should stop the flirting.

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