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I keep getting the urge to cheat on him.

Q.   I keep getting the urge to cheat. I was his first, but I've had 7 other people over the space of 3 years. I know he loves me and it would kill me to break his heart, but sometimes we just argue and argue and I feel like we're going nowhere. I get ...

A.   20 June 2009: I started to tell you that you need to leave him, but then I realized that I'm in a similar situation with my wife. I keep myself from doing anything by reminding myself of what else is at stake other than our marriage (our child, the trust issues, ... (read in full...)

Husband has been seeing another woman for 1/2 the time we've been married

Q.   Dear Cupid, My husband and I recently celebrated (and I use the term loosely) our 7th anniversary. Through the miracle of texting, I found out my husband has been seeing another woman for about half the time we've been married. He says he never ha...

A.   20 June 2009: Maybe he didn't feel you were approachable, so he found someone else to talk to. How well have you communicated with one another?... (read in full...)

She's still married to me, but doing her own thing

Q.   My wife and I will be officially separating on June 23rd, 2009. That is the date set for me to move out into an apartment. I have been a terrible husband and I admit that and realize that but I still very much love my wife and this experience,...

A.   20 June 2009: Just move on. No need to dwell on it.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend cheated and got another woman pregnant

Q.   I’m 22 years old and my boyfriend of 2years cheated on me last year around April and got the woman pregnant. I say woman because she was 31 years old and already has a 12 year old girl. He found out that she was pregnant and kept it a secret for 3 ...

A.   20 June 2009: A cheater is not always a cheater. Most guys start out expecting never to cheat.... (read in full...)

She knows I can't get it up, but wants "the real thing" anyway

Q.   Im 51 years old and my wife is 38. Just to make this short and to the point . I cannot get an erection to have sex . I have told my wife out of frustration and respect for her that she had my blessing to have sex with other men . She has done that ...

A.   20 June 2009: Can you not get it up to anything at all? Porn or whatever?... (read in full...)

His favourite sites are "rape porn"!

Q.   I found out that my husband looks up hardcore porn. His favourite sites are "rape porn" where women are shown to be attacked and brutally treated. I'm completely repulsed by this and feel sick to my stomach that anyone would be excited by this ...

A.   20 June 2009: I can almost assure you that he doesn't want to recreate any of that with you. It sounds like he might be having some issues with his role in your relationship. Or it could even be his role with someone else (children, work, friends, etc.). ... (read in full...)

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