I can't get the graphic details of her sexual past out of my head!
Q. Hi after reading different problems on this site it has given me courage to seek help. I'm 33 and my partner is 25, we met nearly two years ago and things were very confusing for me. She was very open in how she would talk about her sexual past - ...
A. 24 October 2008: I would have to agree with much of what Anon writes. Despite being married for over 28 years, I have never forgotten or completely recovered from the shock of learning about my wife' promiscuous sexual history. I have compared my fate to that of ... (read in full...)
I can't stop imagining my girlfriend's sexual history. How do I express my feelings to her without making her feel like a slut?
Q. Hello. I have been dating a wonderful girl for a little over a year now. We live together, love each other deeply, and I know she wants to marry me (though I feel we are too young right now to do so). My problem is that over the course of our re...
A. 21 October 2008: I also lost my virginity to a girl who had many sexual partners before me, although the whole truth was not known to me until after we were married. I also experience very unpleasant images of her sexual past even after 28 years of marriage. I ... (read in full...)
Visions of her past sexual history haunt me..it's a serious problem and I need specific advice.
Q. How do I get over my wife's sexual history? Please be specific. I don't need any comments stating to "just get over it," or the "past is the past." I'm well aware of these things, but I just can't. I made the mistake of asking about her past, and ...
A. 18 October 2008: I am also in exactly this predicament. I was a virgin when I met my wife and I knew then that she had at least two former lovers but I blocked out that discomfort because she made me feel so good when we were together. Later however, bit by bit, ... (read in full...)
I am having severe difficulties overlooking my girlfriend's past sex life!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm going to get strait to the point, I am having severe difficulties overlooking my gf's past sex life. She has told me that she slept with around 20 people, mostly within a couple of years. She has also told me some of the details t...
A. 9 October 2008: I know exactly how you feel because I have experienced the same emotions on and off for nearly thirty years; jealousy of my wife's past sexual partners and sickness and disgust at the thought of her having sex with those other men. Our situations ... (read in full...)
My wife's promiscuous past still haunts me after 28 years! Should I confront her or try and get help?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm a 51 year old man, now married for 28 years. I was a 22 year old virgin when I met my wife. I had been in one long term relationship with a younger girl but we had not 'gone all the way' because we both felt that we wanted t...
A. 7 October 2008: Thanks to both of you for your support and advice. It is reassuring to know that other people feel as I do. My current spate of turmoil is starting to subside and I am starting to view my wife's past in a more analytical and less emotional way. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has cheated on me
Q. My boyfriend has cheated on me....he was already engaged but still he wants to keep the relation with me.....one of his friend told me about his engagement and all about his past......but still he is not ready to accept his mistakes....I really ...
A. 3 October 2008: Please please leave him. It may break your heart now but you will never ever forget this infidelity. He will probably play it down and promise that he will always be faithful in the future but you will never be able to really trust him again. ... (read in full...)
Was my wife really a virgin, if she almost had complete intercourse, but not quite?
Q. I've never obsessed over my wive's past before. She was a virgin (so she said) when we got engaged and moved in together. I knew of a few past boyfriends where they did some 'heavy petting', but that's it. This past weekend, we had a romantic n...
A. 3 October 2008: I envy you because your wife is so honest and open. If that is the worst stuff she did then you really are a lucky guy. Forget about minor technicalities, you are her first. Please cherish her and remind her constantly that you love her, and that ... (read in full...)
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