How can I divorce my husband when I'm all he has?
Q. I've posted a few times now and had some really good replies. I'm now in a situation where I am so unhappy with my life/marriage that I am actively pursuing affairs. In the 7 years we have been together we have grown apart, we are so different now. ...
A. 22 November 2011: Thank you so much for the kind replies. I expected a much harsher response. Your words really hit home. I told him tonight that I wasn't happy and that I think we should split up. After a lot of crying...from both of us, he asked me to try and work ... (read in full...)
Should I tell our spouses about affair?
Q. I have posted a few questions about this problem but here we go again. I'm married and have been having a 'thing' with a married man. After months of flirting, sex, hundreds of texts, I realised I had fallen for this other man. To the point I would ...
A. 31 July 2011: I agree with the majority of the comments. There is a big bit of me that wants to hurt him back. I can't help but think if it's out in the open we won't go back there in the future. I'm in no doubt he will be back in touch, this has happened ... (read in full...)
I think he is my soulmate but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?
Q. I need to know his feelings about me. This man and I have developed a really strong friendship. In fact, I would say he is probably my very best friend. We met by circumstance last year and immediately, I felt this strange cosmic connection like he ...
A. 30 July 2011: Hi,
I suggest that you don't wait for this guy, if it was going to be then it would have happened by now. The only person who will get hurt is you. If your feelings are that strong that you can't just be friends then walk away. It's the hardest ... (read in full...)
Lusting after a work colleage, but worried about my marriage.
Q. I am married for 22 years. Run my own business. Of late I am finding that I am constantly flirting with this particular male colleague and its getting more sexual in nature. He is very good looking, 13 years younger and married. He has played along ...
A. 20 March 2011: I am in almost the exact same situation- with the exception that we have now slept together. I can honestly say it was a big mistake. We are both married which has made things even more complicated. I now can't stop thinking of my work colleague. ... (read in full...)
Getting involved with married colleague??
Q. Hi, this is the first time I have used a forum for advice. I know a lot of people will judge me negatively but all constructive comments are really appreciated. I have been with my husband for 7 years and married for 6 months. I love him very mu...
A. 20 March 2011: Well I stopped contacting my colleague...which has been difficult seeing as we work together. It has been a week and I'd heard nothing from him. Then today he texts me, he was sweet, asking if I was ok, if I was still talking to him etc. I replied ... (read in full...)
Getting involved with married colleague??
Q. Hi, this is the first time I have used a forum for advice. I know a lot of people will judge me negatively but all constructive comments are really appreciated. I have been with my husband for 7 years and married for 6 months. I love him very mu...
A. 15 March 2011: After much deliberation and advice from a close friend, I have decided I owe it to my husband to try and work out my marriage. I still have feelings for my colleague but realistically he was never going to leave his wife for me- therefore I would be ... (read in full...)
Getting involved with married colleague??
Q. Hi, this is the first time I have used a forum for advice. I know a lot of people will judge me negatively but all constructive comments are really appreciated. I have been with my husband for 7 years and married for 6 months. I love him very mu...
A. 10 March 2011: Ok unfortunately, this appears to be back firing on me. I can't stop thinking about this other man and I'm now questioning whether I should be looking for a divorce. I do love my husband but the fact I am looking for something with this man surely ... (read in full...)
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