Should I tell my ex that I found out he's bipolar and I'm ok with it?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 1yr and even though he is gentle and sweet, he has a dark side that I could detect. I"ve even seen it a couple of times. I recently found out that he is bipolar and he's asked me not to contact him again. I found ...
A. 4 January 2013: You're correct I probably should leave well enough alone. I guess my heart was in it deeper than I thought.... (read in full...)
I wrote to him, telling him how much he hurt me. Now he wants to talk to me about my letter
Q. A multifaceted dilemma: I am a very liberal, environmentalist, highly educated middle aged woman in an area where none of these things are valued. I will not be able to leave this area for nine more years when I will retire. Due to our location...
A. 27 August 2011: Yes unfortunately that is what most men do to see who is the best suitor for them and you are free to do the same. If he likes you then you will win his heart, however, if you don't like the way he is going about it, you're free to walk away and ... (read in full...)
Why won't my fiance kiss me hardly anymore?
Q. For the past few months, my fiance has stopped being affectionate towards me and I really don't know why. The main thing is the kissing. He refuses to kiss me every time I lean in to give him one. He tells me I need to wait. I've asked him several ...
A. 25 August 2011: Sorry to break the news huney but it sounds like you man maybe struggling with his sexual orientation. These are red flags. Check is internet history if you can (discreetly). Any man who does not want to kiss a clean woman (let alone his girl) has ... (read in full...)
I wrote to him, telling him how much he hurt me. Now he wants to talk to me about my letter
Q. A multifaceted dilemma: I am a very liberal, environmentalist, highly educated middle aged woman in an area where none of these things are valued. I will not be able to leave this area for nine more years when I will retire. Due to our location...
A. 25 August 2011: You should talk to him and lighten up. It didn't sound in your letter like you were intimate or exclusive so he is free to see whomever he pleases. He is probably trying to see which one he prefers better. He could simply ignore you and think ... (read in full...)
How do I get her back forever?
Q. Hello everyone I'm a 23 year old guy and my girlfriend's also 23.Well,to start off with, I got to say I'm probably going through the toughest phase of my life till now. My two year long relationship is in turmoil and I'm really feeling low and ...
A. 24 August 2011: You sound like you have a really good heart from what you wrote. At this point you should give her space and time to take in all that you have told her. Im pretty sure she knows you are a good guy who made bad moves in the beginning. BTW, I hope ... (read in full...)
I got back with my ex but its not working out
Q. Dear agony aunts, I'm really desperate for advice. This situation has kept me awake at night and I don't even have the guts to tell friends or family about my predicament. 3 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We'd been dating for 3 years...
A. 23 August 2011: He found out there was nothing better than you out there and couldn't imagine why he let you go! But, the problem is he brought back his "taking you for granted ways". If he hasn't changed and isn't proud to let everyone know you are a couple again, ... (read in full...)
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