Off-Key Romance: A Sign of Incompatibility?
Q. Please help! My boyfriend has a terrible sense of what he deems as "music". He insists on singing extremely hoakey songs to me in a weird, baritone voice. When I ask him to stop he ignores me because he believes I will like it if I listen a ...
A. 12 December 2010: If this music thing is so important to you, maybe you are really not compatible with this guy.
On the other hand, the value you attach to a musical meeting of minds with the man you are with is quite unusual. Many people have a different taste in... (read in full...)
He asked me out, I said no, I've been regretting it ever since!
Q. Okay so here it is. I used to sit next to this guy in class and we got along really well. Long story short we both liked eachother and he asked me out. But i said no because i was scared. He still doesn't know that i actually liked him. That was ...
A. 12 December 2010: Why do you need to get over him, do you have a secret marriage that you are not telling us about? Can't you just... you know... talk to him? Maybe get to know him a bit better, and maybe see if the fact that the wto of you really like each other can ... (read in full...)
I'm really tired of waiting to be dating!
Q. There's a weird pattern that's been happening over the last couple years involving my lovelife... First of, it's practically been non-existant. However, I'm called the smartest of all my friends understand emotions, how relationships wo...
A. 12 December 2010: Just a suggestion, but maybe you can try another approach? Einstein (no shit-for-brains, I've been told) put it this way: trying the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is the definition of insanity.... (read in full...)
I want to be a nice memory for him, not mess him up!
Q. I am single and 40. I transferred to this new job location a year ago. I made many nice new friends. Including B, a 29 year old guy. In the beginning I found him odd, awkward, loud, but brilliant and I assumed he had a form of autism, aspergers, I ...
A. 12 December 2010: Sorry, you're messing him up already. Might as well go all the way -- whether or not he will be messed up as result, depends more on him than on you. Think about it, what if you leave him and he gets messed up by another women? That would be waste ... (read in full...)
Falling in love with my out of country cousin
Q. Hi! Im confused and need your advice please. I think im falling inlove with my first cousin. The first time i met him was 5 years ago when they spend their vacation here in PI coz he was born in US and he grew up there.It's weird coz the first ti...
A. 12 December 2010: Out of all the 6 billion people in the world, this guy is the only one that makes you feel right? Girl, maybe you need to open your eyes a bit.
I don't think it's a super good idea to move forward with this guy. Not because he's your cousin, ... (read in full...)
My neighbor asked me if I would engage in a FWBs with him?
Q. My neighbour recently approched me online about the idea of friends with benefits. We had been casually talking for a couple weeks. At first I was totally offended he thought that way about me but lately I've really been warming up to the idea. He's ...
A. 12 December 2010: If you can convince yourself that you will not die if you go without sex for a couple more weeks, and if you're not super attracted to this guy... why not just feel flattered that you have an admirer, laugh the whole thing off and tell the guy ... (read in full...)
HELP I am a complete social reject.
Q. all of my friends have started talking to guys and although im not the preety kind, i find that people are always loking for girls like that. I really want to start talking to guys because otherwise ill have no friends. dont get me wrong! i have ...
A. 12 December 2010: 1. Don't worry too much.
2. Be patient. You have many beautiful years ahead of you.
3. Try out different stuff once in a while. The only way you will find out what to say to your crush and whether they will reject you, or love you to pieces..... (read in full...)
Why did this girl come to me and not my Casanova friend?
Q. Hi, recently i met a girl, but man was it easy! This has never hapend to me ever! She came to me and started flirting with me, it was as if she was instantly attracted to me when i walked in the room, she approached me! The thing is im good looking ...
A. 12 December 2010: Hey man, ever thought about it this way:
You may be better looking than you think you are, wittier, more interesting, more confident too!
Enjoy the fruits of your newfound powers!... (read in full...)
Ex alone for Christmas? Or let him spend with my family?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of 2years, 7months ago, because we were in a long distance relationship between the US and UK and he cheated on me. We still speak now and again via email and Facebook but that's about it. Last night we were talking ...
A. 12 December 2010: Let the guy be, literally leave him alone.
If he craves the benefits of being with you so much -- why can't he deliver the things you look for in a relationship, e.g. monogamy?
Think about it, you will come to agree.... (read in full...)
Can people who are good at making money and excel at academics get a normal girlfriend who loves them?
Q. Can people excel at academics get a nice and normal girl friend who loves them. I am one of the people who excel at academics in a pretty good state school in england (I am not trying to show off). I will be in sixth form next year and I have ...
A. 12 December 2010: You will be very succesful with women, at some point in your life. Don't worry.
If you don't want to wait for that point, but rather have tons of sex and sweet loving now, focus your research on the dynamics of seduction. Do your homework - there ... (read in full...)
My husband and best friend had sex and blame it on the drink!
Q. SO, in need of some advice- my husband, who've I've been for 6 years and have a son with, has slept with my best friend. After a long night of partying she stayed over at our house. My husband, who was totally drunk, decided to go into her bedroom ...
A. 12 December 2010: I don't think you should break up. You should be alert from now on, though: "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!". If you live together for another 20 years, and nothing like this ever happens again, you will look back upon it as ... (read in full...)
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