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writes:Okay so here it is. I used to sit next to this guy in class and we got along really well. Long story short we both liked eachother and he asked me out. But i said no because i was scared. He still doesn't know that i actually liked him.That was 2 years ago, he started hanging around with me and my group of friends just over a year ago. Then he went out with one of my closest friends, which you know upset me but she didn't know i liked him. Then he just starts talking to me randomly and just being sweet. How can i get over this guy? It's driving me crazy, especially since he hangs around with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 Why don't you ask your friend if she'd mind you going out with him?
If she gave you her blessing then you should go for it, he might even like you more because you said no to him before and to him it'll seem like it's taken teo years before you started to like him.
To get over him, if you have to, just go out with other people. When your at a party, make an effort to talk to new people and get their number, or a date. Ask your friends to set you up or introduce you to new people.
Just try to find someone else.
Good luck
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Hey i been there! minus the best friend part.
If you regret it why don't you just tell him!:) if he's acting this way now it couldn't hurt to just tell him.Maybe he still happens to like you and hopes you change your mind. All you can do is set a distance between you two or if you really do regret saying so then relax and hope it happens again. Just say the right answer this time :)
My short story: I did the same thing. Where i am now -read column- Im with that guy that asked me out years ago. Im at the top of exploding with happiness and love ^_^)
xoxo
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reader, meestal  +, writes (12 December 2010):
Why do you need to get over him, do you have a secret marriage that you are not telling us about? Can't you just... you know... talk to him? Maybe get to know him a bit better, and maybe see if the fact that the wto of you really like each other can lead to nice things happening?
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