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26-29,
anonymous
writes:all of my friends have started talking to guys and although im not the preety kind, i find that people are always loking for girls like that. I really want to start talking to guys because otherwise ill have no friends. dont get me wrong! i have lots of loving friends who really do care for me, but i feel that everyone else around me is starting to move on, for example, my best friend whom i have been friends for since forever is starting to go to the movies with guys and my other close friends atleast talk to about 2-3 guys while i sit at home feeling lonely. me friends tell me just to say hello atleast to my crush, but i have got no idea how to and what they will say and weather they will reject me. basically i have no idea how to talk to a guy and this is probaby a common problem that you get asked, but i need help before i become 30 with out talking to a single guy. i feel lonely and when i talk to my mum she just says "OH YOUR WAY TO YOUNG TO EVEN BEGIN TO START TALKING TO GUYS and youll have plenty of years start doing that, but i am going to become a COMPLETE loner soon if i dont start. i dont even know which guys to talk to! HELP ME ;'( xoxo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): I generally do find it hard to talk to guys too, it's considerably harder seen as about a third of the people i hang around with are guys. I don't know what it is, words just don't flow as easy when i'm talking to girls.
Try and start of with simple things, or join in conversations (not interrupt), maybe talk about things they like.
Good luck :]
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reader, meestal  +, writes (12 December 2010):
1. Don't worry too much.
2. Be patient. You have many beautiful years ahead of you.
3. Try out different stuff once in a while. The only way you will find out what to say to your crush and whether they will reject you, or love you to pieces... is just try! Sure, it may feel uncomfortable at first, but think about it, what have you really got to lose?
Goodluck & send us a postcard when you and your crush get married!
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