My boyfriend constantly shuts down and defeats himself!
Q. Whenever something upsets him, he completely shuts down. He'll have no motivation and will only speak in a whisper, as if it requires huge amounts of effort (not that I'm doubting it does). He's constantly in this cycle of feeling like a failure, ...
A. 21 December 2010: It's been a couple months, but I wanted to follow up. A couple days after asking this question I took him to the campus psychological services and he was diagnosed as depressed. We have since broken up, but last time we spoke he was supposed to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend constantly shuts down and defeats himself!
Q. Whenever something upsets him, he completely shuts down. He'll have no motivation and will only speak in a whisper, as if it requires huge amounts of effort (not that I'm doubting it does). He's constantly in this cycle of feeling like a failure, ...
A. 14 November 2010: Thank you so much for your replies...I feel so blind now. He has a very poor diet, eats very little some days and a lot on others (he's underweight), has insomnia and very irregular sleep patterns...I always thought his patterns were contributing to ... (read in full...)
When I graduate he's fair game, right?
Q. hi i am a new comer to the U.S and I couldn't speak well-English when I just got there and I am a student in a HIGH SCHOOL . I've met lot of students , teachers and people who helped me a lot to improve my English skills and they're all prou...
A. 13 November 2010: You're drawn to him because he really seems to understand you. But you're right to know that this is wrong- at least in this stage in your life. You are letting your imagination go wild. Don't assume and don't push him because you could potentially ... (read in full...)
How to deal with passive aggressive husband!
Q. I just learned 3 days ago that my husband is Passive Aggressive. What an eye opener. I have a feeling this will be a long letter(It is very long, grab a coffee lol), I have never spoke to anyone about this other than my older daughter, no one is ...
A. 13 November 2010: I'm only as old as your oldest daughter so I can't offer you any actual advice on what to do. However, my dad is the same as your husband. He is rude to my mom and always victimizes himself, though your situation seems to be worse (he doesn't insult ... (read in full...)
All I do is kiss her neck and she's ready to go!
Q. When I kiss my girlfriend's neck she becomes quite aroused. I know it's probably a dumb question because mostly likely it's her nerves responding but, why do women get turned on by that?...
A. 13 November 2010: I personally enjoy the sensation of being kissed on the neck but it doesn't necessarily get me going. If I do it to my boyfriend he starts breathing really heavy and gets suuuuper aroused.
So it's not exactly "all women and some men."
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Is my relationship with my father influencing my dating?
Q. Do I have daddy issues? About 3 years ago my dad stopped talking to me and yes, we live in the same house. I don't know why but I was a bit of a rebel. Nothing dramatic but I use to skip school and come home late. He used to lock me out of the ho...
A. 26 October 2010: Oh wow, that bit about him being good to you when you were little but now you can see so much more- I totally relate. I was completely coddled as a kid but now that I'm not doing everything my dad wants me to he's become colder. I can see how ... (read in full...)
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