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I want to break up with my girlfriend, but she's emotionally blackmailing me and threatening self harm...

Q.   I really need to get out of my relationship for my own health and for my future that I could have, but my girlfriend won't let me have. She is emotionally blackmailing me saying she will hurt herself if I leave her and I am the most unhappy I have ...

A.   25 July 2005: this is a hard ine! you need to get into her head you dont want to be with her! to be honest she most probly is bliffing about the whole self harm thing. you need to get out of it now! its all blackmail love, dont let the botch do that to you any ... (read in full...)

Splitting from my boyfriend showed me that I'm just not attracted to him any more. What do I do?

Q.   I have just recently gotten back together with my boyfriend of a year after a brief split. We split up because from practically day 1 we moved in together. This coupled with the fact that we worked together resulted in us spending too much time ...

A.   25 July 2005: i really think you should split from your feller! you obviously are not attacted to him and you just enjoy his company this is more of a friendship than a relationship. when you are in a relationship you should have a tingly feeling of lust and want ... (read in full...)

Tried everything, but I can't make my girlfriend climax. Now she wants to get a vibrator...

Q.   I can't make my girlfriend come. I've been with women before who have said that sex was very good and they came but my current girl friend won't come. I almost kill myself trying to make her. I've asked her what I can do to make her come but she ...

A.   25 July 2005: my idea is let her get a vibrator! evin though she is not coming does not mean she is not enjoying it! but what you should do to make her tell you what she actually wants is, turn it into a game. a sex game. you blind fold her let her tell you what ... (read in full...)

I had to ask my partner to leave our home and now he says that's it between us!

Q.   I have recently split up with my partner of 7 years. We have a 1 year old son and the only reason we split was because we could not live together any more. I love him deeply and he still loves me but I don't know if we are going to get back tog...

A.   25 July 2005: well this is the problem with first loves. you thought he was your soulmate but this was becuase you have not experienced loving anyone else. alot of people marry their childhood sweethearts but sometimes these do not work out. to be quite honest i ... (read in full...)

I dated someone else during the split. Now the other man is pushing to marry me!

Q.   hello, I am a lady aged 29. I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years now. We once broke up for 4 months (it really affected both me and my boyfriend) and I left my country to visit my sister abroad. During my visit I was so despera...

A.   24 July 2005: right hun! here id how it is ! just say politly to him, but firmly i dont want to be with you it was a fling and i do not feel love towards you! dont let a man push you around! if you dont want to marry him then just tell him straight! dont pity ... (read in full...)

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