Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 27 January 2017: Well, I must say that the last post was the best one. You are a very intelligent woman and must say that my rational side agrees completely with you. The problem is my emotional side. I am resentful because she told me she has never had orgasms via ... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate!
Q. Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...
A. 26 January 2017: Easy to say but...we have a little daughter and properties together. If I move forward to a divorce I will be the one who is going to lose more. And for the statement about "who I am". I am her husband!. What if from now on I decide stop givi... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate!
Q. Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...
A. 26 January 2017: And they say that the world is ruled by men...
Look ..what I feel is that is unfair that given the fact that she has had a lot of men ( that's means lot of orgasms, lot of blowjob, anal, cum, etc) do not I deserve the best from her? Being her husb... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate!
Q. Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...
A. 26 January 2017: I don't feel sorry for me, that's for sure. If what you say is right (orgasms and squirting are not connected with love) what if I try to make love with somebody else?, that's wouldn't connected with love either. I would still love my wife but I ... (read in full...)
I am never going to feel better until I perform better sexually then her ex
Q. Ok readers please help. Please be honest and blatantly straightforward. I am so tired of reading the answers that men want or NEED to hear as opposed to the real truth. Experienced women can surely help me out here. Ok, I'm a nice looking 38 year ...
A. 25 January 2017: Same boat. I am sorry but you never will feel confortablr and if you weren't able to be better than exes you'll never do. I don't know, maybe it's a matter of sexual compatibility or something. Women thinks different than us. They say that they ... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate!
Q. Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...
A. 24 January 2017: Aunt honest: you are wrong. I don't put names to my wife. Others do. And on the other hand I love her. So if somebody else could make her squirt that's not important? I would forget that she enjoyed se more with FWB and that's it? Maybe forget that ... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate!
Q. Here I am..again. Now trying to stop loving my wife. During the last 6 months 3 of her former FWB have written e-mails to her remembering their pleasure moments...I found out reading those e-mails (not spying , given we both have open access t...
A. 23 January 2017: Thanks for your opinions.
Her ex lovers continue trying to contact her because she was just a FEB...that's mean...a easy slutty for them. I know, women think differently but that's truth.
I don't know how to feel myself comfortable with the idea... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 22 January 2017: OP here. Finally someone who don't send me to the counselor...thanks.
By the way...I am not able get her wet and very far of cause her a squirt.... (read in full...)
This bothers me a lot. What can I do? Married nearly 15 years and now my wife is no longer interested in Bjs.
Q. Been married for nearly 15 years. My wife has basically decided that she will no longer perform oral sex on me. It's not like I was getting once a week, in fact once every two years is more like the current rate. When we first married, it was some...
A. 22 January 2017: Absolutely unacceptable. It could be like someone below has said. Feelings toward you have changed. I know that it is difficult to walk away if there are goods or children in the middle. My advise: look for other women willing to perform oral sex, ... (read in full...)
This bothers me a lot. What can I do? Married nearly 15 years and now my wife is no longer interested in Bjs.
Q. Been married for nearly 15 years. My wife has basically decided that she will no longer perform oral sex on me. It's not like I was getting once a week, in fact once every two years is more like the current rate. When we first married, it was some...
A. 22 January 2017: Absolutely unacceptable. It could be like someone below has said. Feelings toward you have changed. I know that it is difficult to walk away if there are goods or children in the middle. My advise: look for other women willing to perform oral sex, ... (read in full...)
Is it just the sex he wants?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months now, but we don't meet often, only once per 1 or 2 weeks, depending on our work schedules. We do go on dates when we meet, not just sex. He remembered my bday even though I have only mentioned it once and he ...
A. 22 January 2017: For most of men a female FWB is just a slutty girl which can be available just for sex. Of course...sex sourronded with a good chat, maybe a pizza, maybe a walk and movies...but just casual sex..and remember something. As the time goes by...men ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me to give another man oral sex.I am not happy with this!
Q. My boyfriend has been pressuring me into blowing another guy and I feel completely uncomfortable with the idea, I have told him this everytime he's asked and now he brings it up in the middle of sex or while he's dirty talking, I told him I'd ...
A. 23 December 2016: I think that you're over reacting. A blowjob is something very ordinary, almost every woman has done that. Degraded?. The act itself is degraded if you look it up from a "moral" perspective. Some might says " if the act is done with love". ... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 15 December 2016: Well....I must say that all of you are very intelligent people. I have read all your answers carefully. Finally I could make this wrap up: 1. I consider myself a good lover. I have been with a lot of women. My satisfaction is not complete of the ... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 15 December 2016: Chigirl: thank you very much for answering me.
the thing is as follows. She has had 28 sex partners before me. It doesn't matter. She married me. Reasons?. Ok. She loves me. Also she was 40 and lonely...her partners were based on sex and they were... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 11 December 2016: Chigirl: thank you very much for answering me.
the thing is as follows. She has had 28 sex partners before me. It doesn't matter. She married me. Reasons?. Ok. She loves me. Also she was 40 and lonely...her partners were based on sex and they were... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 11 December 2016: Thanks to the last poster...but what I am asking is...an I a lousy lover?...is that simple.
chigirl: why you get mad?. When I make my statements they are in general...ok. i believe you. You don't care about penis size. But please...open your mind... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 10 December 2016: OP: absences of responses/help means I am right? Am I a lousy lover?... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 10 December 2016: Hi I am the OP. 1. I only can cause orgasms to my wife through oral sex, and the whole problem is that she doesn't orgams with me through intercourse (she had with exes) 2. I have tried different positions...everything. of course this is not a ... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 10 December 2016: First at all thank you for your responses.
1. I never said that an average penis cannot gives pleasure.
2. I said a penis with a good girth is more pleasurable (yes or no?)
3. I never said that I would prefer that she spent her life with bad sex... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 9 December 2016: Your husband is your worst lover?,,,,so what? Maybe he doesn't matter about your opinion. Obviously you have had greater lovers before and now he gives you things, non sexual things that you need in your current life. So what. It's suppose that that ... (read in full...)
Am I a lousy lover for my wife?
Q. I am 48 y.I. married for 8 years. I met my wife when we both were 40. The only way that she can reach the orgasm with me is with oral sex. She always told me that she was unable to reach an orgasm troough intercourse. I know that she has had 28 p...
A. 9 December 2016: Being good enough is not the same.
What is not good enough forms is that she says she loves me but I cannot lover her as I did before knowing her best orgasm happened with others. Besides I have an small penis (5 inches) regular birth. I think my o... (read in full...)
A threesome with my wife and another male was my fantasy. So why couldn't I get hard looking at my wife?
Q. How would you explain this? What I am about to say was totally MY idea, even though my wife was very into it once it got started...My wife and I were in a male friends house initiating a threesome with him...up to this point you could say it was ...
A. 9 December 2016: I would be happy of my wife had intercourse with someone who is able to make her orgasm... (read in full...)
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