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Does he just want to hook up? What does he want from ee?!

Q.   A male perspective would be appreciated in this..What does he want from me? Me and this guy were seeing each other for a few months at the end of last year to January this year. We kind of just stopped talking after that, but since then we've had at ...

A.   29 June 2009: He just wants to hook up. Generally when guys really like someone, they tend to call and text a lot. Probably about once every 3-4 days when just starting out and becoming more frequent as things progress. If you're intimate with each other you ... (read in full...)

She agreed to not hang out with guys but she still does!

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. She kept a lot of things from me about her past and what she has done with other guys, and there have been a few times where she broke promises to me. For example she went out ...

A.   29 June 2009: Dude I think you're being kind of overbearing here. I hate to say it, but this relationship might be toast. She moat likely already has you pegged as being jealous or possessive. Also, 18-21 is not the age to be super serious about relationships. ... (read in full...)

I know things could be a LOT worse, but seriously?

Q.   December of last year was not my best month. The first of December, my mother passed away from breast cancer. The seventh of December, I got into a car accident that left me with a broken leg (currently in the cast) and $1600 in debt. The twentieth ...

A.   29 June 2009: dang sorry to hear about all that. Yeah it sucks. I had one of those perfect storms happen a while back. The ex dumped me Feb 13th to go out on Valentine's with another guy, I broke my ankle 4 days later, found out I had to put off grad school ... (read in full...)

What kind of response did he want from me?

Q.   So me and this guy were texting the other day, just like hi how are you type of stuff. Then he says "we should hang out sometime..." so I simply responded "yeah we should." I do really want to, but I didn't want to be the one to have to ask him out. ...

A.   29 June 2009: ummm...sorry had to cut that answer short to hang with my boo for a while. To add a little bit, every woman I have ever ended up in a relationship with was willing to meet me halfway and give some kind concrete sign that she was interested. ... (read in full...)

What kind of response did he want from me?

Q.   So me and this guy were texting the other day, just like hi how are you type of stuff. Then he says "we should hang out sometime..." so I simply responded "yeah we should." I do really want to, but I didn't want to be the one to have to ask him out. ...

A.   29 June 2009: OK, I've had this exact exchange with women a few times, and while I can't say with 100% certainty what's in his head, I think I have a good idea. He WAS asking you out, you just totally missed it. He's not really sure if you're intereste... (read in full...)

I can't take this constant abuse. If anything goes wrong its suddenly MY fault!

Q.   I can't take the blaming anymore. Ive been dating a man for over a year and everything that goes wrong, every insecurity he has is somehow a result of something I've done. If his boss doesn't return a call to him, it's because of me. If someone ...

A.   26 June 2009: Insight is that you need to leave this guy. Period!... (read in full...)

She mentions her ex too often for comfort...

Q.   My wife sometimes mentions her ex's name for whatever reason and also uses his name for passwords, usernames, etc. She says it because it's easy for her to remember; but I think it's for another reason. I haven't been snooping but I just know. Makes ...

A.   26 June 2009: I don't think you're wrong for being a little put out about this. Something like that would make anybody feel insecure. While nothing is probably going on, I think she's being pretty self absorbed by not being able to see it from your perspective. ... (read in full...)

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