Is the first kiss always the best?
Q. Not so much a question as I need peoples opinions. Okay, first kisses. The first kiss you have with someone, is that always the best? With my boyfriend, the first kiss had so much build up. And when it happened, my belly was literally doing ...
A. 29 March 2011: The answer is chemical and related to nervousness (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Butterflies_in_the_stomach). So if you want butterflies all your life, you gotta live without a long term relationship... ... (read in full...)
I lied to my fiance about my sexual past because I didn't want him to think I was a slut
Q. I have not been totally honest with my fiance... i did not want him to think i was a slut so i lied to him about how many people i have slept with and the kinds of things i have done. i had very low self esteem and emotionally abusive parents so i ...
A. 29 March 2011: I understand that you are torn between hiding this past and telling the truth, and it's really a good sign. That means that you are a honest person. It seems that you had a period when you were close to sex addiction, and your childhood explains it ... (read in full...)
Why does this girl blurt out bits and piece of her past, and was she a cheater?
Q. So guys, I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, and she keeps telling me bits and pieces of her past, without me asking her to, so not too long ago we were having some alone time, and again she blurts more things out, and I ask her "why are ...
A. 29 March 2011: Mhmmm it's not very clear... Could it be that she started a relationship with this guy she "knew for a long time", but that it was not exclusive at first because she was "off" in her relationship, but not sure if it was gonna start again? Coul... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with 2 men, one of them is my ex
Q. i'm in a bad situation at the moment emotionally because i think i'm in love with 2 men, one is my ex. my ex broke up with me twice in the past and after the first time he pleaded for me to take him back and said he would change. he hadn't and ...
A. 25 March 2011: It's always dangerous to hang around exes, because you can forget the time, forget the bad moments, and be projected back in your past. The sexual tension, unless you had a real closure, is always present. In my opinion, you should:
1- Make sure... (read in full...)
He's too busy for a relationship but wants to have sex with me
Q. I have this friend at uni and we have kniow each other for a while 2 years. We like each other and there is a lot of sexaul tension between us. I want to be with him and be his girlfiend but his actions confuse me. He says he is too busy for a re...
A. 25 March 2011: Yes, he is playing you... So either accept to have only casual sex with him, or keep your distance.
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Can someone love and yet lie to the person that they love?
Q. He cheated while we were dating, and I only found out about it after we got married. Thus, I didn't know he had been unfaithful when he proposed, during the engagment, or during the wedding. He cheated once, and was in touch with the person he ...
A. 25 March 2011: Yes, you can love and lie at the same time. The strongest motivation of this kind of lie is usually purely selfish : you do not want to lose a person/relationship/comfortable life. And then, in order to fight the guilt, you can make up excuses for ... (read in full...)
Should I be angry at my boyfriend for sharing his fantasy??
Q. Last night while I was in bed with my boyfriend making love, he asked me if I had any fantasies lately. I said no but asked him if he did. Earlier on ITR I introduced a little kinkiness to our sex life by talking about fantasies together to turn ...
A. 25 March 2011: He just found the boundaries of your game, they were untold. He might have guessed them though, if he would have been angry in the opposite situation (you telling him you had a fantasy about this guy you at your work)... But maybe he is expecting ... (read in full...)
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