I see beautiful young women everywhere, but all I'm attracted to are the older ones...
Q. This may be a stupid question but all my friends are giving me crap for dating women way outside my age. I'm 23 and most women I date are between 35 to 42. My current love interest is 40 and I don't understand why I'm not attracted to women my own ...
A. 4 July 2005: Hi Patrick,
Funny that you would be asking that question and I would find it. I'm 48 and he's 30. We just started dating. I asked him why he liked older women and his answer was that the younger ones had too much drama going on. The older women had ... (read in full...)
Any stress in my boyfriend's life he takes out on me... I'm only trying to make it better!
Q. Hi - he takes his stress out on me. When my boyfriend is stressed from work or tired, he won't talk to me. Instead he snaps at me and bites my head off if I try talking to him. He'll spend the whole evening ignoring me - sometimes he won't even lo...
A. 27 June 2005: I was married to someone just like that. He's using you as his whipping boy. He has very low self-esteem and will put you and whoever is around in the same hole as him. As they say "Misery loves company". There is nothing you can do to "make it ... (read in full...)
My friends don't feel the same way about this girl that I do. What can I do?
Q. Hey. I love this girl, who I think loves me back, but there is one problem that none of my friends like her, some even hate her and I don't know what to do. If we were to go out my friends would laugh and cheek me! ...
A. 27 June 2005: I'm curious as to why your friends "hate her". Do they know something you don't? Or are they just being jealous? There's nothing worse then having to choose between your friends and a "girl". I mean, can't we all just get along? Find out from your ... (read in full...)
What seemed to me to be minor misjudgements sent her into a fury...
Q. Six months ago I met and fell in love with a lady with a sweet, gentle nature and a heart of gold. It wasn’t long before I was thinking that one day we might marry. (She’s been divorced a long time; I’ve never married)( we’re both in our 50s). ...
A. 27 June 2005: Just when you think things are going great--Kabluewy! If she's in her 50's she may be going through a hormone imbalance (Mood swings and flying off the handle are typical). But she needs to figure this out herself by going to a doctor and/or ... (read in full...)
My ex gets thrown out and he comes to stay with me...
Q. My ex now lives with someone else. Since last year he has been back to me 3 times since he moved in with her & stays for over a week. He also comes up on other occasions (she claims she throws him out). I have told her what he's doing. She don't se...
A. 27 June 2005: He obviously is used to relying on you emotionally. And you sound like you don't want to hurt his feelings by turning him away. Getting involved by calling "her" only makes things worse. I know it's hard, but you have to start saying no to this man. ... (read in full...)
Two relationships ended badly. Now I seem to run whenever a guy gets interested!
Q. Hi, Wondering if anyone can help me... I've been in two long term relationships in the past, but they both ended badly and I had my heart broken. Since the last one ended, I've been single for 2 years because everytime something starts happenin...
A. 27 June 2005: I was in a similar situation. It's difficult to trust men again, never mind trusting your own judgement! Remember all men are not alike. Give yourself a break and get involved with other interests. 2 years may seem like a long time, but your ... (read in full...)
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