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writes: My ex now lives with someone else. Since last year he has been back to me 3 times since he moved in with her & stays for over a week. He also comes up on other occasions (she claims she throws him out). I have told her what he's doing. She don't seem to mind. Women, what would you do if you were in this situation?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (1 July 2005):
If this was my ex, I'd tell him to get lost! He's just using you and preventing you moving on to a life without him. Also if my boyfriend was going to stay with his ex every time we had a row itd be curtains! she sounds as bad as him!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (27 June 2005):
 He is using you and the situation to his advantage. You and his girlfriend are allowing him to get away with it.
Whatever you feel, tell him no more. He is not respecting you or her by doing this; you should not be taking him in. He has chosen to be with this girl, he made his bed, he should lay in it.
Why is she chucking him out? Why are you no longer together anyway?
He sounds bad news, give him his marching orders next time he comes round.
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reader, lovethat +, writes (27 June 2005):
He obviously is used to relying on you emotionally. And you sound like you don't want to hurt his feelings by turning him away. Getting involved by calling "her" only makes things worse. I know it's hard, but you have to start saying no to this man. And you can be gentle about it, but the hard part will be the first time, after that it will be easy. And you may not have to deal with it a second time! Do everyone a favor, especially yourself; don't call her and don't let him stay.
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (27 June 2005):
If you dont like it,SAY NO!! to HIM!!....he is using you ...cut him loose . This is not your problem and you shouldnt let it become your problem either.
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