I want to leave but we're married... is it worth it?
Q. Dear Cupid friends, This is my second post :) I want to share with you my feelings and concerns, so you can orient me if I'm doing everything the wrong way. I'm married, since last August 2009, but I come from a long distance relationship from ...
A. 20 May 2010: Well, just wanted to let you know that last night he told me he recognizes he has been all this time focused on wrong things, like work, and didn't pursue the really important values in life (like love, family, etc).
Now, I'm the one who feels it... (read in full...)
Feel so disrespected and used but can't get out of the relationship
Q. My boyfriend and i have always had problems in the bedroom and it's getting to the point where i feel very disrespected by him and as if he has unrealistic expectations of me. I feel trapped in this relationship and anxious when left alone in a ...
A. 19 May 2010: I would also add to this, what do you like about him?? With so many dislikes, obviously this guy is not for you!! Be free!... (read in full...)
I want to leave but we're married... is it worth it?
Q. Dear Cupid friends, This is my second post :) I want to share with you my feelings and concerns, so you can orient me if I'm doing everything the wrong way. I'm married, since last August 2009, but I come from a long distance relationship from ...
A. 19 May 2010: Thank you all for your honest opinion, I'm going to discuss it with my family this weekend, with whom I'm very close....
I don't want to hurt him, I know this will devastate him... But I'll try to be strong and free my self now that I can... :... (read in full...)
He is afraid of divorcing his wife because of the children, and I love him so much. Please help.
Q. First hello dear cupied, my name is ari, my life has passed through a lot of problems , I was married beforefour year and I divorced for a big reason i had, he was an alcoolical man, and my life with him was like in prison and God helped me to ...
A. 17 May 2010: Hi girl,
I understand your situation and there's no question he has feelings for you. But, if he doesn't make a concrete plan to divorce, then you'll always stay on the side because he won't leave his children.
There are lots of parents who have... (read in full...)
I'm unhappily married and in love with someone else...who is also married. I'm so confused
Q. Hello everyone, I have a long story but I'll try to make it short... I'm practically a newlywed with only 7 years of marriage (religious by the way); we were bf and gf for 8 years. Of those 8 years, he spent 6 on another country, first doing a ...
A. 9 March 2010: Thank you so much, bitterblue! Your answers really comforted me... I'll try to take one step at a time, and see how I can slowly work things out.
I agree with you, that the marriage should not be ended because of an affair, but for the faults we d... (read in full...)
Love among the ruins
Q. I hope it's all right if I write. I'm not your traditional client. I'm 62, and I recently bumped (quite accidentally) into my very first real love, a girl for whom I gladly would have died, in 1966. The Vietnam war separated us. She then married ...
A. 7 March 2010: Hi, I have no experience but I believe it can happen.
Have you watched "Love in the times of Cholera"??? While reading your story, that movie came to my mind.. At their advanced age, they finally got the happines they deserved...
All I can... (read in full...)
Can I get him to talk about our future together?
Q. How do I get him to talk about our relationship? I'm not sure where we stand, things are progressing fairly quickly but neither of us have mentioned where our relationship is going. In the very beginning, there was his problematic ex-girlfriend that ...
A. 7 March 2010: Hi,
He said this to whom? you or the ex?
"if circumstances were different, I'd really want to be in a relatioship with you..."
If it was to you, apparently he does not have plans with you in a near future while the ex is around. You coul... (read in full...)
I'm unhappily married and in love with someone else...who is also married. I'm so confused
Q. Hello everyone, I have a long story but I'll try to make it short... I'm practically a newlywed with only 7 years of marriage (religious by the way); we were bf and gf for 8 years. Of those 8 years, he spent 6 on another country, first doing a ...
A. 7 March 2010: Thank you for your answer, bitterblue!
How do you know the coworker isn't only looking for an affair? They all say they are going to leave their wives. You know nothing about him other than the side he wants to show you. You probably wouldn't... (read in full...)
My life has always been controlled by my parents and now my husband. How can I break free?
Q. I grew up with very strict parents, I was not allowed to go out with friends or be independent. My day ran on a schedule, from school to various music, dance, and etiquette lessons. My parents determined how I would dress, wear my hair, and who I ...
A. 6 March 2010: Your story is so much like my life, a controlling husband and me being a passive person. If you can, I would recommend you to tell him what you really want. If the independence you want and imagine yourself in a couple of years, do not include your ... (read in full...)
My life has always been controlled by my parents and now my husband. How can I break free?
Q. I grew up with very strict parents, I was not allowed to go out with friends or be independent. My day ran on a schedule, from school to various music, dance, and etiquette lessons. My parents determined how I would dress, wear my hair, and who I ...
A. 6 March 2010: Your story is so much like my life, a controlling husband and me being a passive person. If you can, I would recommend you to tell him what you really want. If the independence you want and imagine yourself in a couple of years, do not include your ... (read in full...)
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