Anger or abuse?
Q. hi everybody, i've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now although i think we just broke up for real. and i think i want to break up but for some reason i cant bear to be without him and i have a panic attack and freak out when we're cl...
A. 30 June 2010: I think deep down you know what you need (or should) do; you really don't need anyone to tell you anything different or things you don't already know yourself. When a person like him knows they are wrong, they act on that manipulation tac... (read in full...)
How should I feel about my husband looking at other girls?
Q. My hubby recently told me he likes to look at other womens bodys and prettiness when he is with his friends they stare at girls and comment and when with me i see hem look at women also what should i do and how should i feel (confused here) ...
A. 30 June 2010: That used to bother me years ago when my boyfriends would check out other girls. But now that I'm older, I realize that it's just human nature for males AND females to look at attractive "stuff" whether it's the opposite sex, the same sex (though ... (read in full...)
My ex is blackmailing me with threats to my family.
Q. Hi , Iam from India and recently got married it was an arranged marraige , but before marraige i had a boy friend but later part i felt that he is getting things done out of blackmiling me , (he had some photos where we were togather ) and i...
A. 30 June 2010: I agree with CaringGuy. Keep all of his e-mails, texts, voicemails - whatever - as proof and call the police. You can also get a restraining order on him, too. We all make mistakes but we learn from them and NO - do not accept being blackmailed by ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about who I am and what I want. I am angry and depressed.
Q. I think i suffer from depression. I was bullied a lot at school, and even though it was a long time ago, i still havent got over it. I'm also not sure what i want to do for a career. I also feel weird compared to other people in my age group. ...
A. 30 June 2010: It sounds like you've been through a lot but you also sound really strong and very smart!! I hate to ask this question but have you thought about talking to a professional about all this? Sometimes just talking about your problems feels SOOO much ... (read in full...)
My new husband is not interested in sex
Q. We got married after few months of dating and now it's been 5 months since we got married. We used to have sex but I was the one to provoke it. Even in the first month of our marriage he liked to have it just once in 1-2 weeks. I always thought ...
A. 30 June 2010: Well, not that it matters that much, but you didn't say how old you guys are. It sounds like there is something physically "off" with him and he should go to the doctor... if it's not physical, perhaps it's something emotional? Either way, it's ... (read in full...)
What do I do when he kisses me?
Q. hi im 14 ill be 15 in a few weeks and i havent had my first kiss yet . is that wierd.i have a boyfriend and hes 17 and we are about to go on a date really soon and im really nervous.any tips on wat do do wen he tries to kiss me??...
A. 30 June 2010: I agree with what everyone said. Just open your mouth a little and copy what he does when he kisses you. That's pretty much what I did the first time - but I also held my breath accidentally (nervous!) and this weird noise came out of my throat when ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so obsessed with porn, he ignores my crying!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and i cant seem to get past his porn viewing habit. i didn't know to what extent it was to until i found out he looks at it every single day!! he has lied to me about it several times saying that he ...
A. 25 June 2010: Sounds like he is probably addicted to it now. So typical that he can do it but you can't! This is bad advice but I would start commenting left and right on other guys - on TV, in magazines, etc. etc. Tell HIM to DEAL WITH IT!... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend prefer masturbating rather than having sex with me?
Q. Please help me understand. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for the last 8 months. We have recently moved in together. Before we moved in we were having sex 4-6times a week. It has now dramatically dropped to about 4-6 times a month. I...
A. 25 June 2010: It could also be a selfish reason - he doesn't need to concentrate on pleasing anyone else - he can just get down to business on himself and be done with it all. I only WISH my husband would take matters into his own hands!!!!... (read in full...)
In the three years since the baby she's lost all motivation
Q. I've been married for 3 years and we have been together for 6 years. We have 2 children together and she has 3 of her own. Here's my question. Since our daughter was born (3 years ago) my wife has no motoviation to do anything. She won't clean ...
A. 25 June 2010: You didn't say if she was a stay-home mom or worked outside of the home. Just from what little I know, it sounds like she may be angry about something and this is a passive-aggressive way of showing you or basically saying, "I'm fed up with things!" ... (read in full...)
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