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I like 2 lads and I don't know what to do.....

Q.   well... i have recently got with this lad who is like really nice to me but one of his mates like me and i like him too. i have done for 4 years. i dont know who i like more, whats even worse is when i am with my friends my bf is like all over me in ...

A.   5 February 2008: you need to make ur mind up soon because it isnt fair on the two lads having to wait if you get me? i think he is doin this because he wants to make it clear to the other lad that ur his and no1 elses.. but you need to decide who you want to be ... (read in full...)

Valentine gift, what should I get?

Q.   What should i get my boyfriend for valentines day because we have almost been going out 6 months?...

A.   5 February 2008: errm i think.. maybe sum aftershave? a top? or even just a bear sayin i love you or something..? wudnt reli b able to gic advice without knownin this persons taste in clothing or whatever he is interested in, y dont you go to town with him and see ... (read in full...)

How can I help my boyfriend with his Mood Swings?

Q.   I need help. My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year now and he says he loves me; this is not the problem. The problem is his mood swings, one minute he'll be absolutly fine and the next he goes incredably quiet and refuses to talk abo...

A.   5 February 2008: to be fair, its not really your problem, i know it affects you, but maybe he shoudl visit a doctor to see if ther is anything he can do to help? good luck.. private mail me if ya need to talk. x... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to pursue a relationship with somebody 1-2 years younger??

Q.   dear cupid, I would like to know is it wrong for a person to go out with someone who is 1-2 years younger than themselves. I recently saw this good looking girl, went over to her found out how old she is and that, she seems to be 1 year younger tha...

A.   3 February 2008: hey, no of corse there isnt anything wrong with that, age differences are so overated, i mean look ast some adults, maybe your parents for instant, there is sometimes 5 and over age differences between people. i think you shud just go for it, who ... (read in full...)

How can I stop the gossip about me and my crush?

Q.   I really like a guy from school and a few days ago i texted him that i like him and explained who iam. he doesn't know me so he couldn't understand,but a few of his friends know me.yesterday he saw me but he didn't say anything to me.the problem is ...

A.   29 January 2008: You can't stop gossiping, there is always going to be something people are talking about, you just have to ignore it. I know it's hard and embarrassing, but there is really nothing you can do to stop it, I'm afraid..!... (read in full...)

My mother has disowned me. Waht can I do?

Q.   im a young girl that needs help!!!! my dad left 8 years ago so it has only ever been my mum sisters and brothers but now i have my own flat my mother has disowned me. a big argument kicked of with my sister and her ex in my flat my boyfriend wal...

A.   8 January 2008: i think you should give them a little time, im sure they are missing you just as much as you are missing them. if this doesnt work then try sitting them down and talking about it. good luck... (read in full...)

Why do I find it hard to get over people?

Q.   How come I find it hard to get over people? My last 2 girlfriends I'm having difficulty getting over and I still miss them (well, one!) and want her back. The counsellor said that it may be because I lost my Dad. What do you think?...

A.   8 January 2008: it may be because of your dad, you just want someone who can comfort you. or maybe you just really liked this girl and you find it hard to get over?... (read in full...)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

Q.   This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?...

A.   8 January 2008: in some cases the answer to your quiestion is yes they do do it for sex, but there are other reasons women cheat. if they do not feel loved in the realtionship they are in and another man comes along and treats her differently shes is going to feel ... (read in full...)

Should I be pregnant at this age?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend has had sex without a condom loads off times in the past month to hav a baby because last year we found out i was pregnant but got an abortion because we was not ready but now i dont no if i am pregnant now because i hav just ...

A.   8 January 2008: i think you are a bit too young to be trying to get pregant. you have your whole life ahead of you, i think your too young to even be thinking about having a child. it will completly ruin your social life. you will not be able to go out clubbing or ... (read in full...)

Feeling so needy towards my boyfriend

Q.   Lately I've felt supremely needy, I can't get enough of my boyfriend, I want to be with him and held all the time. Recently he bought his own house and no longer lives with his parents. Before we spent a lot of time at my house, frequently he would ...

A.   7 January 2008: i think you need to really sit your boyfriend down and speak to him firmly so he can get the message that you are not happy. does it really matter whos house your at..? i mean if your seeing each other shouldnt that be enough..? but also he should ... (read in full...)

My mother is making my life hell

Q.   hi, i'm 13, and my mum is honestly after my life. she beats me up when she likes, she abusses me, then asks me to forgive her, well what does she think i can forgive her so esily. And the thing i hate most is i get beaten up mostly just cause of my ...

A.   7 January 2008: no mother should treat her daughter like that, can you think of any reasons why she might want to hurt you..? maybe she has something wrong with her that she has no control over which would explain why she is doing these things. but it is a bit odd ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has walked away over jealousy of my ex boyfriend, do I try to get him back?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together a year, we've lived together 9 of those months. We have been friends for 10 years, so we know each other very well. 3 months ago, he broke up with me, and because he pays all the bills, asked me to move out. ...

A.   7 January 2008: I think you should try talking to him more about this jealousy. Jealousy is a sign of being insecure with yourself. He is obviously insecure, I think he really likes you but is afraid that your going to go off with another man, not because he cant ... (read in full...)

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