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How could he let another woman come between us?

Q.   I was with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have 1 daughter together. Our relationship started going downhill ever since I caught him talking inappropriately with another woman. I trusted that he wouldn't continue doing it but in the back of my mind ...

A.   7 November 2015: The only way marriage would have helped was get you a law case against him. It would not have stopped cheating. And as for age... it doesn't bring maturity. The reasons 40-year-olds generally have longer-lasting marriages than 20-year-olds is only ... (read in full...)

Is my mother ashamed that she had a daughter? She praises her sons, not me.

Q.   Im 25 woman and have 2 younger brother with 3 years gap respectively. We live with our successful and happy family. Everybody will think that our family is beyond perfect. Many thinks that my parent succeed raising us. Otherwise. Theres a differe...

A.   7 November 2015: Are you from a culture or religion where women are "contained" into a stereotype? For long in China, for example, men earned honour by going to war, and women by bearing sons who will grow up to go to war. If you notice your mom never speaks when ... (read in full...)

Bullied at home by the whole family - help! 

Q.   Hi, Aunts, Okay, this is not a love question. This is a family question, so it might be the wrong website, but this place is where I get the fastest responses. Recently I've stopped school for health reasons (social anxiety overload!) and a...

A.   7 November 2015: The world is very cruel towards teenagers, throwing off any problems they are having as"hormones". Please look better before blaming them so quickly. Telling them "others have it worse" isn't going to help. I know a girl who had a sensitive scalp.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend loves me but made it clear we will never marry. I'm heartbroken!

Q.   Hi, in really confuse, sad and needed an advice. I have a boyfriend. I love him so much, he said he love me too. Im too serious in our relationship and im hoping that this wll lead us to marriage. Today i make a joke to him about getting married, ...

A.   7 November 2015: Hello, In this modern era, a lot of people, particularly men, have resolved to not marry. It's not an unusual situation to find yourself in. What you must do is assess why he might not want to marry, and try to see through his side. Generally, peo... (read in full...)

To me he's the perfect guy. How can I encourage him spend time with me?

Q.   Hi, Aunts, I'm a freakishly shy, eccentric tomboy, often mistaken as being lesbian because I don't flirt with guys. What they don't know is that I don't flirt with random people because I have been eternally dedicated to a boy for 6 years- a boy w...

A.   6 November 2015: Hi, me again! Just thought I'd add this: the problem is that I can't convince him to go somewhere I will be! We've never met up intentionally before- it's always coincidence. I don't know how to invite people places. I've never invited someone ... (read in full...)

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