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If I keep my cheating secret, will it come back to bite me later?

Q.   What might be some negative consequences of marrying my fiancee without telling her that I cheated on her a year ago? We were clearly in a committed relationship back then, and I had sex with another woman--who you can say I had somewhat of an ...

A.   26 August 2010: women NEVER forget such things..it'll keep comin back at ya 4ever...... (read in full...)

Slept with someone while we were on a break; is it worth telling him when the relationship is so rocky already?

Q.   Hello everybody. I'm in a bit of a pickle at the moment. This may also be a bit long but I'll try to keep it as simple as I can, but I think I should give some back story. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 18 months now and t...

A.   26 August 2010: Don't tell him, he has some deep emotional troubles connected with his childhood, so if you will bring up that u've also cheated it wont do any good or any improvement for both of you. If you regret what you did, and have no intention to repeat, ... (read in full...)

Jealousy issues due to my girlfriend's ex.....

Q.   I have jealousy issues over my GF's ex that I need help on. First, some background...I have been with her for about a year. When we met, she claims to have broken up with her ex, but she still saw him once or twice for sex in a 4 month span. This ...

A.   25 August 2010: she's with you not with him - this is the major point. As for your insecurities, the only way that you might dissolve her memories a bit, is just improving yourself in a better way; u saying she had the best sex, well how about you give her even ... (read in full...)

Does familiarity kill desire?

Q.   Do all men lose desire for their partner when they've been together for a while? Does familiarity kill desire? It is my dream to have a relationship with someone, that lasts, with someone who I can connect intellectually and emotionally with, sh...

A.   25 August 2010: You need to have more imagination and variety, thats for sure. But don't say you don't know how or when, you gotta teach urself somehow. Remember that a big deal of arousal comes from senses like smell, sight, hearing, if you're able to please your ... (read in full...)

How can I make this relationship work?

Q.   I have been in an intense relationship for 5 months. We met the day he was released from prison after 2 years. Before he was my bf he seemed a little standoffish but I thought it was just b/c of everything he had been thru. Now however, since we ...

A.   25 August 2010: well obviously ur bf has some psychological issues in terms on what a relationship is, or even how it is to treat a partner. It doesn't seem like he has an idea about ur needs and ur emotions, he just knows u belong to him now and he doesn't need to ... (read in full...)

Dealing with drama because of my ex.....

Q.   After my ex left me for his female friend he claimed ! He told Me not to call no more so i say what ever! i havent call him , now he callin me cause she wants to speak me woman to woman that some body been prank callin her and i told him look nobody ...

A.   25 August 2010: WHAAATTEVER to both of them! You deserve much better, probly ur ex saw how much of a b*tch the new girl is and the probmlems started...they cant get a rest so they annoy you too and want to involve u in his mess! Just dont pick up ur phone when he's ... (read in full...)

I trusted him and he cheated on me

Q.   well my boyfriend and i have now been going out for two months and the other night i trusted him to go to a party while i was at a dance class, he tells me two days later that he cheated on me and now i don't know what to do, so i guess my question ...

A.   25 August 2010: 2 months is crucial for any relationship, because it is very short to get fully attached to the partner and yet it is the perfect time to show all the love the couple has. Usually, people dating for 2 months are still in some sort of romantic cloud, ... (read in full...)

Is this a text breakup?

Q.   Breakup line or not " I think I better take a break for awhile"...

A.   24 August 2010: well it might sound double-sided if it isnt sort of an answer to your previous messages...cuz I had same, I constantly nagged my bf not noticing it, while he had his troubles (which guyz tend to keep inside) so one day he just told me he needed ... (read in full...)

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