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Why does he say he "doesn't deserve" me? Is he going to drop me?

Q.   I have been friends with this guy for about 4 years now and I know that I love him, as more than a friend. Recently we have crossed the line and have slept together twice. He says that he doesn't deserve me, but I think he is trying to blow me off. ...

A.   10 June 2005: hi, he is not trying to blow you off, he is saying this because he loves you, and he thinks you're too nice to be with him and that you deserve better, explain to him, that you do love him and you do want to be with him, maybe you are not showing as ... (read in full...)

I worry that my penis might be tiny...

Q.   I'm worried about sex. I'm not thinking about having it now, but I'm worried about the future. First of all, and most important, I've been seeing questions about the foreskin. I'm 13 and my foreskin does not come back over my penis when I have an ...

A.   29 April 2005: You're still growing and going through the growth stage. Of course your penis is not going to be full size by now; you're only just qualified to be a teenager, so don't go and worry about that just now. I don't think a girl is going to like you for ... (read in full...)

My sexy mom...

Q.   hi, I am 18 years old boy. I have a sexy mom. I want sex with her. Tell me what should I do....

A.   29 April 2005: hi, This is very wrong, and should be dealt with, you have only just become an adult! and you want sex with your mum! She might be a very attractive woman but you have already came out of her now so don't go back in! lol, You should forget a... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is telling everyone my personal business...

Q.   I am 12 years old and I need some advice badly. My boyfriend found out that I've started my periods and is telling everyone. What shall I do?...

A.   28 April 2005: hiya, I'm only 12 myself, nearly, 13 and I suggest that you ditch him quickly! Else he might say something you might regret. Love is all about trust. Can you really trust this guy? I think you should talk to him, if he's the kind that only sho... (read in full...)

Boys don't want to kiss me... Is it because I'm a tomboy?

Q.   No boys fancy me and when I do go out with a boy they never want to do anything......I don't want to have sex but a kiss every once in a while would be nice. I am 12 and a tomboy, do you think this is why boys never want to do anything with me ...

A.   27 April 2005: Hi, This is not because you are a tom-boy. To tell you the truth, boys like tom-boys far better then giggly girls. lol. Be proud of what you have and you can have fun being single as well as being in a realationship, but the right time will ... (read in full...)

I feel differently - not as strongly - as he does. How do I respond to him?

Q.   I'm not sure how to word this question. The man I'm seeing has recently told me that he loves me, I, however do not have the same feelings for him at this time. My feelings for him run deep, but I don't feel that I love him and also feel that love ...

A.   27 April 2005: Hi, You are right about the love part, on how it is a very strong emotion. Maybe you need to spend more time with this guy, tell him how you feel deep down and if he loves you he would understand that you need more time to feel that strongly... (read in full...)

Want to ask her out, but I don't know what to do or say!

Q.   Think I'm falling in love with a girl who I have known for 13 years. She's always been there for me and I really want to ask her out but I don't know what to do or say. Please help me...

A.   27 April 2005: hi, I'm 14 and kinda in the same position. What I think you should do is tell her how you feel about her, but make sure you don't ruin your friendship by asking her, as you will walk away with nothing. Why don't you get a few mates to ask her... (read in full...)

I trust my boyfriend... I just don't trust the girl who's stalking him!

Q.   Recently I found out that this girl likes my boyfriend. I didn't know what to say when he told me, so I just laughed it off. A few days ago, I walked up to him and she was talking to him, and she gave him this note. I didn't think much of it, besi...

A.   27 April 2005: Hi confused, You are in a very difficult position here, what i suggest you do, is sit down and have a chat with him, ask him the questions that you really want to find out, look for any type of distraction, stuttering and lost speech w... (read in full...)

Since our split, he's changed and he's disrespectful to me. He still wants me back. Do I give him a chance?

Q.   Four months ago, my boyfriend of over 3 years and I nearly split because he said I was too demanding. We tried to work things out but for the last for months he's a changed person. He doesn't treat me with any respect anymore and stays out all night ...

A.   27 April 2005: Hi, What I think here is that this man still has deep feelings for you but maybe does not want to show his emotions, as he might think you do not have the same feelings for him anymore. A way to compromise here is too keep close in-touch and have... (read in full...)

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