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Problems with g/f's past, concern about our future

Q.   I have an issue with my girlfriend's sexual past. Before you all tell me it's my problem (which i acknowledge) or that it shouldn't matter if I truly love her, hear me out. My situation might be different than some. The root of this is that i w...

A.   20 April 2009: really if you are considering being with other women at all, and the fact that she has slept with other people is getting in front of you marrying her since you want to have the same experiences, do you really think that this is the women you should ... (read in full...)

My friends don't seem to appreciate me... what am I doing wrong???

Q.   Hi, I would be grateful if you could give me some advice. Here is my situation: I am a reasonably quiet, but kind and (sometimes) funny. Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of friends, but I am beginning to feel that they are taking advantage of me. T...

A.   9 April 2009: to be honest there is nothing specific you can do. that is the way some people are, and you changing how you act wont effect that. just be yourself, and try to stop worrying about if they are really your friends. when you around them just forg... (read in full...)

She wants to end this as she thinks I will end up hating her! Help!

Q.   Hey, I've been going out with this girl for about 7 days. Now she's all like, 'you shouldnt go out with me', and she says that its bcuz she will probably do something wrong, and i will end up hating her. What does this mean? I'm confused. ple...

A.   25 March 2009: normally, when a girl is like this she dosnt want to be with you. im sorry mate, but if she loved you she would be willing to take a chance. theres a reason she wants to let you go, although she isnt brave enough to say it to you. im sorry man, i d... (read in full...)

Horny..don't want to cheat but phone sex/photos aren't working for me in this LDR

Q.   I find that I have plenty of opportunities to cheat but I just can't get myself to do it. I moved to cali 3 months ago and well to put it nicely I LOVE sex...I have a boyfriend though and it makes it hard since he still lives in my old town. I have ...

A.   18 March 2009: ignore the last answer posted on here. what it comes down to is that you are human, you are young. you are made to have and engoy sex. what youve got to decide is, is your partner that special to you that you have a reason to resist these urges? a... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is bi, even gay and likes transexuals.

Q.   My boyfriend of 7 years is bi maybe even gay, but he won't admit it, and I'm gutted he wont tell me the truth, we have never really had good sex, but he is a good friend and I do love him, he likes transexuals etc. That's all, he looks at on the ...

A.   31 January 2009: This guy is confused. Many people struggle coming to terms with there sexuality, and it is even harder admitting it to a girl you love. Hes been going out with you gfor seven years, and even if it isnt sexual he still feels love towards you. He ... (read in full...)

Is he using me? What should I do?

Q.   Ok I lust for this boy in my health class and we started talkin for about 2 months and I decided to give him my virginity which I now regret.after we stopped talkin to each other after we had sex I realize that he used me .a month later he called m...

A.   31 January 2009: yes hes using you for sex. sorry to put it so bluntly but by what youve told us that what it sounds like, and if you have a good thing with your bf dont ruin it for him. think about it he has sex with you, dodnt tlk untill he wants it agai... (read in full...)

I imagine kissing my best friend's neglected boyfriend!

Q.   I am 14 and never been kissed, only had one boyfriend 3 years ago. My best friend has a really nice boyfriend, and he has all these problems at home like with his family and he just had a death in his family, and my best friend has been really ...

A.   5 July 2008: talk to your friend, and explain that you really like him, if she feels the way you say she does she should just leave you and him be... (read in full...)

I can't tell if it's "just friends" or are we more? It's complicated.

Q.   Okay so I'm best friends with this guy. I've known him for about 5 years. A couple of years ago I told my friend about how I liked him and she ended up telling him. I asked him to a dance around the same time, and he of course accepted. It ended up ...

A.   29 June 2008: i agree with the first post, let him make the first move. and yeah, it looks like he likes you:) lol, over time friendships grow into something more, and mabye he just needed that time to realise how special you really are to him:) just keep goin... (read in full...)

I don't want to break his heart again so what should I do?

Q.   i have a boyfriend that i have ben dating for 5 months we dated before that though and the first time we dated i broke up with him and it broke his heart i started missing him so i got back with him now this time that we are dating im starting not ...

A.   29 June 2008: you cant stay with him, just out of pity, at the end of the day you will end up breaking up wit him, a relationship only works if both people are commited to each other, and if you just dont feel that way it isnt your fault. dont feel bad, he will... (read in full...)

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