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51-59,
*ynnebaulch@msn.com
writes:My boyfriend of 7 years is bi maybe even gay, but he won't admit it, and I'm gutted he wont tell me the truth, we have never really had good sex, but he is a good friend and I do love him, he likes transexuals etc. That's all, he looks at on the internet, he buys films and so on, I've tried to kid myself but this morning I found texts on his fone to a prositute who works along side a bi guy, asking for directions to her place, he deleted the texts, after I read them and tried to make out they were work related, I showed him the number I copied text from and the lady offering her services in local mag, he then said he rang just messing about, I know in my heart that's not true, I've tried to talk to him but he just shouts at me. I could never sleep with him again ever, but he just won't talk to me,(he also disappeared for 2 hours at the same time mind) I'm so hurt, he is trying to make out I'm mental, I'm not, but my head is so messed up I don't know what 2 do, what would you do?
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reader, lestatmighty +, writes (31 January 2009):
This guy is confused. Many people struggle coming to terms with there sexuality, and it is even harder admitting it to a girl you love.Hes been going out with you gfor seven years, and even if it isnt sexual he still feels love towards you. He dosnt want to hurt you, and he dosnt want to accept it himself.I would confront him about it telling him anything and how hurt you are about this, and that you cannot continue in a relationship you feel has lost the trust it once has. the foundation of relationships is trust, and without that you cannot hope to go far without it collapsing. Talk to him and if he is unwilling to talk, but you are made up that he is Gay or biosexiual ask yourself is the guy you want to spend your life with one that cannot trust you?
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