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Concerned about going on the pill.

Q.   I turned 16 four months ago, and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. My mum has given me the ''all clear'' to go on the pill, any many of my friends are on it. There are only a couple of things im worried about. Im worried that i will put on ...

A.   18 March 2010: Try the NuvaRing. I was on that for years and because it delivers the hormones locally rather than all the way through the bloodstream it works with lower levels of hormones. It is just as effective though, so don't worry about that. Also, it is ... (read in full...)

Can you die in real life if you fall in your dream?

Q.   Right i know how stupid this sounds but i really must ask. Surely all of you have heard of the "if you have a dream that you fall(e.g off a cliff) and u hit the bottom you die in real life" which is why you always wake up. Well i also heard one g...

A.   18 March 2010: As someone who has died in a dream before, don't worry, you won't die in real life if you are a healthy person (as some people mentioned heart problems can maybe be an issue for some people). The mind has it's own ways of working out the very rare ... (read in full...)

Should I stop loving her because she might be a slut?

Q.   I was in a relationship for four years we have been broken up for ten months and i still dearly love her but we were talking and we came across the subject of sex and she told me that she have had sex with two guys and i really love her but idk if i ...

A.   18 February 2010: If she hadn't slept with anyone during the hiatus would you want her to judge you as a slut for sleeping with those 5 girls? Probably not, so my advice is that you certainly need to get over it, especially because, trust me, two guys in ten months ... (read in full...)

I am really bugged by the fact that she's been with 3 other guys

Q.   I have been in a relationship with A for 3 months as a couple - 8 as a sort-of - and i've had troubling thoughts. She's has been with 3 guys before, sexually. I'm a wholesome guy, but I lost my virginity to her. Her last relationship lasted for 2 ...

A.   18 February 2010: Dear Male anon: Clearly I was not saying that he should forgive her of any and everything. Of course if she cheats he should not just "accept her" for that and ignore her behavior. Consciously hurtful behavior should never be over looked for the ... (read in full...)

I wish she could show me how much she loves me.

Q.   My fiance told me she doesn't want to be friends with me...if she wanted me as a friend then she wouldn't be with me. I can understand that to a point, but she treats and talks to her friends with more humanity then she gives to me. I know sh...

A.   18 February 2010: She's manipulating you. That string dangling thing you talk about is how she keeps you wanting her and coming back for more. She likely has some type of personality disorder because anyone who manipulates regularly within close and intimate ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to enjoy "taking care of business" by himself, even when I am there wanting sex!

Q.   Sorry, this is a little long-winded. My boyfriend and I have been together for a very short time. He lives very far away and we have been seeing each other for a few months. Every month and a half we get to spend a few days together at a ti...

A.   18 February 2010: I think your best bet is to at least try to join in a few times and gauge his reaction. If he indeed seems like he is bothered by you "interrupting" him, then you might have to bring it up again. Also, there is no reason, unless it is painful/too ... (read in full...)

Help!! How can I find out more about his past sex life without sounding paranoid???

Q.   I am in love with my boyfriend. The only thing that bothers me is the fact that he is far more sexually experienced than me. We have been sexually active for months now with each other and he claims that our sex is the best he's ever had. But ...

A.   14 February 2010: Please, please just let it go! I promise you it is not a good idea to pursue this line of questioning. I was in exactly the same position with my first bf when I was 18, and he finally broke down and told me what i wanted to know, and it tortured me ... (read in full...)

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