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I still miss my ex, and am thinking of contacting her on her birthday

Q.   Should I contact my ex on her birthday? She text/called me and even took me out, but that was about three months after our 3 year relationship ended. It's been closer to 5 months since we last spoke now (in may) and 10 months since we broke up. I ...

A.   11 October 2010: Today is the day. I was thinking about my motives and I wouldnt say it is to get her back, but I think I want her to know I am still here. I feel like it is the right think to do and want to break down the barriers and open up communication at se ... (read in full...)

Lost puppy effect.

Q.   With a friend of mine going through a break up at the moment I have noticed the common behavior of her bf which I want to call the lost puppy effect. Some back ground on the situation is that she broke up with him and is moving on and going through ...

A.   4 October 2010: I agree with everything you have written, but I also wonder about a fourth kind of "lost puppy". Sometimes the dumper creates and manipulates the other into a lost puppy, by halfway acting like they want to recreate a relationship. I was the lost ... (read in full...)

I still miss my ex, and am thinking of contacting her on her birthday

Q.   Should I contact my ex on her birthday? She text/called me and even took me out, but that was about three months after our 3 year relationship ended. It's been closer to 5 months since we last spoke now (in may) and 10 months since we broke up. I ...

A.   4 October 2010: To answer and update a little bit: I don't really know why we ended up breaking up, there were many different reasons, none of them really feel right (It was always about me, I was too busy, I never took her out, ect). I don't one hundred percent ... (read in full...)

We were on a break! but he can't forgive me.

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. However last year we split up for 3months he split up with me because we kept arguing as i was abit overprotective. i begged and begged him back he told me no every time said he can never get back, even ...

A.   2 September 2010: Girls test guys all the time. You screwed up. You absolutely had every right to het with another guy. You were single. Even so, you can't expect him to be ok with it. You cant tell him you love him while you were with someone else, that just doesn't ... (read in full...)

Recently she seems confused and conflicted and her love is not entirely toward me.

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and everything has been fine, we have been talking about getting engaged and getting married within the next few years. Recently she has been acting totally different, she seems confused, conflicted and ...

A.   21 May 2010: I hate that I am agreeing with the above post bc it sucks to hear, but I just went throught almost the exact same situation. We were planning on marrauge, she blammed me, backed off, were on a break, broke up, talked about string back then no..... I ... (read in full...)

We broke up, but still see each other and he's lying to his new g/f

Q.   well me and my ex were dating for about two years and it was awesome and then we started arguing alot then i broke it off but i kinda didnt want it to end so i wanted him back but a few weeks later he got with another girl like three yrs younger ...

A.   9 May 2010: I'm going through almost the same thing with my ex. It's really hard, but the best thing to do is just to ignore him. Don't answer his calls (maybe like once every two weeks or so, maybe less). If he wants to be with you, he should break it off ... (read in full...)

I just hung out with my ex for the first time in about two months. What now?

Q.   *OP's own title* I hung out with my ex today for the first time after about 4 months. We dated for almost three years. She started what I believe was a rebound with her best guy friend only days after our breakup, but she hooked up with me twic...

A.   9 April 2010: When I was with her it felt like we never broke up. She would gave me brush her hair aside and iter things to create contact. She would talk like we never broke up, about our future and stuff, but not directly. She ECM made it obvious she ... (read in full...)

What are her motives? What is she thinking?

Q.   Ok new info. We havent talked in almost a month, and she texted me for my birthday. I had been ignoring her calls for the pas thturee weeks trying to get some space. Ahe texted on my b day and wanted to know why we hadn't talked. I told her she ...

A.   5 April 2010: P.S.... This girl is my ex of over 2.5 years. Otherwise I would think its no big deal. We broke up a while ago, and well, I still think she is the one for me. We needed space because I became so caught up in law school she felt ignored. I have ... (read in full...)

How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately?

Q.   How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately? It's been two months after almost three years. I'm still hurting and she started dating someone else almost immediately. ...

A.   29 March 2010: I already tried to get her back and she "couldn't". It's been over three months. Try seem to be happy so I don't think I could get her back! I would def. Consider it if I thought it was possible but right now I am just trying to move on with my own ... (read in full...)

How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately?

Q.   How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately? It's been two months after almost three years. I'm still hurting and she started dating someone else almost immediately. ...

A.   23 March 2010: Oh ya and when I say almost immediately I mean days after our breakup... (read in full...)

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