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Well, I originally I came here seeking advice. I've not had that many relationships, but I've gained some experience from the ones I have had.

If I am giving advice to someone, I will either do it from personal experience or think "what would I do in that situation?" and tke it from there.

I live in Scotland UK

The one thing guaranteed to make me tick is seeing people getting hurt, I've been cause a lot of heartache in the past, and I know what a horrible feeling it is, But I guess thats what makes us who we are. "Character Building" I think they call it lol

Currently My relationship status i guess is currently Seeing Someone. Its not quite a relationship... But only time will tell

When should I contact him?

Q.   A few months ago, I was seeing someone who decided to no longer pursue our relationship any further. We ended things over the phone and it was quite sudden. I didn't really ask for many answers. At the time, I just accepted it and didn't want to ...

A.   16 August 2010: Maybe just sending him a quick text saying, something like Hey, I know things ddn't work out, I don't want us to finish up on bad terms so I'm texting just to clear the air, Hope you're well. x ... (read in full...)

How should I bring this up?

Q.   I am physically unable to have sex. How and when do I bring that up to a potential partner?...

A.   16 August 2010: Well, I guess you just have to be honest and up front about this. Explain to a potential partner that you are physically unable to perform sexually, and explain why. You won't hve to go in to detail if you feel it's to personal. I would do this ... (read in full...)

He's 39 and I love him, but he has a real questionable history! What should I do?

Q.   First off: I know it's impossible to judge, but PLEASE try to help me. I don't need to be punished more than I have been recently. I've fallen in love with a 39 year old man. I met him online two years ago, and we have been talking practica...

A.   16 August 2010: Oh Honey, Please cut all ties with this man. You have your entire life ahead of you to meet such a nice man, and have a real relationship with, this 39 year old is just horrible. Like you, My initial thought when you mentioned his da... (read in full...)

Annoyed by BF not talking to me but he has his reasons. Am I being unreasonable?

Q.   Is it wrong for me to feel annoyed at my boyfriend for not being able to talk to me? Our work schedules conflict so we can't always see each other in person. He doesn't have a cellphone, doesn't have internet, or any other way of contacting me. He ...

A.   16 August 2010: Its very unusual for someone to have NO means of communication at all. How does he call in sick to work? What if a family member of his was involved in a crisis? Personally, I think you have every right to be annoyed. This is a tricky on... (read in full...)

Watching porn and mastrubating since break-up, is this normal?

Q.   My ex-boyfreind is in a fade lower than me n I'm 14 n he btmroke up with me over a text, I don't know how to get over him what should I do... Oh n since we broke up I've been masterbating alot n watching porn 2 is this odd ...

A.   16 August 2010: Well, The best thing to get over a break up is time. You need to let yourself come to terms with the fact that your relationship has ended. You are only 14, so while it may feel like the biggest crsis in the world to you right now, it will get... (read in full...)

Need advice on sexual positions, I am short 5' 1/2" he is tall 6' 7"??

Q.   So the guy i am talking to is a whole 6'7'' and i am only 5'1/2'' so we tried to have sex and it was completely awkward. i need help on how to not make it so awkward and let him enjoy it! Please Help me! ...

A.   16 August 2010: I think I am going to have this problem myself quite soon, as my crush is 6ft 5 and am 5ft 4! We didn't have full sex, so I can't advise you on that, but Maybe you could be on top, spooning, and doggy style may work He could hold you and do ... (read in full...)

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