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I'm 14 and I need some advice on turning my life around

Q.   Hey everyone. Im just here to ask for a few words of wisdom and advice. Im a 14 year old male who's going through alot at the moment and its tearing me down.Im a currently a freshman in highschool and with all the grades/test/classes/and drama it ...

A.   11 September 2009: Reading your post was like reading something I used to write when I was 14. I can see exactly where you're coming from, since I felt the same way when I was your age. Sweetie, I know this is a cliche line but you have your whole life ahead of... (read in full...)

Why do I always think I'm pregnant?

Q.   hello everyone, im a 17 year old girl and i am on the contreceptive pill however every time i have sex im convinced im pregnant. No matter how many negative pregnancy test i have i still convince myself im getting pregnancy symptoms, even when i use ...

A.   10 September 2009: I think it's normal to have the fear of becoming pregnant even if things prove that you're not. However, yours seems to have taken up a rather larger space. If you use protection, and you are on the pill, then there isn't much to worry about. Of ... (read in full...)

Does he love me after what he said?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who is almost 20 and I'm 18. we've been dating for 16 months and he says I'm the best thing ever in his life and that he'd die for me. so we watched city of angels on the couch the other day and we were talking about pregnancy and ...

A.   10 September 2009: If he really spoke like you say he did, then things are a bit complicated here. Would he really abandon you if you got pregnant and wanted to keep the baby? Would he really "leave your ass" and stop supporting you? That's honestly not a nice thing ... (read in full...)

Do you think theres a huge diffrence in age?

Q.   I Have a Problem . I really like this guy , But he is a year younger than me and also the younger brother of one of my very old friends i havnt seen in awhile . I know he wants to mke us offical but im not sure , even though it seems almost TO ...

A.   10 September 2009: Of course it isn't. It would be a huge age difference if you were 17 and he was 25-30. I don't think 16 years differ much from 17 year olds. You're both still in school and you're going through pretty much the same things. I don't see anything wrong ... (read in full...)

How do I talk to a guy I fance but have only just met?

Q.   I've just started college and I really like this guy only after knowing him a few days. I've managed to have a few conversations with him, we like the same music. But there are a lot of awkward silences when we sit next to each other in class, im ...

A.   10 September 2009: Hey. Have you thought of trying to get into a conversation with him while not being in class? I'm pretty sure both of you could be more open then. If he randomly moves to another table as to show you that he isn't interested in what you're sayi... (read in full...)

I'm 16 but look 25, does this happen to others?

Q.   I look 25 years old but I'm only 16, I'm wondering if this is normal I hear more complains about looking younger than age but not a whole lot of the opposite. and I'm also concerned will I always look older then I am, I would really hat being 35 and ...

A.   10 September 2009: Oops, not having my glasses on at the particular time I didn't even really notice the gender information. Since most of the people I know that have this anxiety are girls, I assumed you are one too. I feel so embarassed. I'm so sorry, lol. A lot of ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 but look 25, does this happen to others?

Q.   I look 25 years old but I'm only 16, I'm wondering if this is normal I hear more complains about looking younger than age but not a whole lot of the opposite. and I'm also concerned will I always look older then I am, I would really hat being 35 and ...

A.   10 September 2009: Hey. First of all, I know a lot of girls who look younger than their age and don't feel that well about it, so you're not alone. The best thing is to always look your age if not a little younger once you grow up, but that's not the matter now. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend's son!

Q.   I have fallen in love with my best friends son who is 21 i am 39 we have had a little contact sexually but nothing is happening i am married and he has a girl friend. i can't get him out of my head, we have not had full sex at all but I dream of him ...

A.   10 September 2009: First of all, I strickly support the fact that you shouldn't cheat while you're in a relationship, let alone when you're married. He also has a girlfriend. Do you think it's fair to your husband and the guy's girlfriend? Of course it isn't. Perso... (read in full...)

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