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Has anybody been with someone who used to do a lot of drugs?

Q.   My boyfriend used to be a heroin addict. He's pretty much done every drug under the sun (pot, cocaine, acid, ecstasy and heroin which he was addicted to for 4 years) and did that for several years from high school till his mid 20s. He's now 31. ...

A.   12 September 2012: I was in an almost exact situation. We ended up breaking up because it bothered me so much. She was very into drugs and actually did sexual favors for drugs. Although I loved her very much, the mere thought of that bothered me so much that we broke ... (read in full...)

Met him in March, moved in with him in May, we aren't officially boyfriend-girlfriend, , now confined to bed following surgery, I've grown obsessed and jealous! Help!

Q.   So here's my story. I got a surgery last week and I'm in my sort-of-a-boyfriend's place and he's taking care of me. I'm 20 yrs old college girl and he's 33 and he finishes his masters dgr this semester. Anyways, so all day long I just lay in his ...

A.   3 August 2012: I find it interesting you moved in with him, but you aren't in an official relationship. That is something to think about.... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend say this during sex?

Q.   During sex (when we're both really into it), my boyfriend will tell me to make love to him; what should I do?...

A.   13 July 2012: I'm confused...he asks you to make love with you? Thats just saying he wants to have sex with you. And if you two are in love, its better. Speaking from experience, sex with someone you are committed to is much different. IMO.... (read in full...)

Marriage makes sense because of my military situation, but my parents won't approve

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have a somewhat unique problem. We have been going out for roughly 8 months now, and dated a few years ago for about a month. We were good friends in between those years. I am in the military and we have been dealing with the ...

A.   25 June 2012: Let me make it clear that I am not wanting to marry because of the benefits - in fact I already make BAS (one of two pay benefits you receive when married) due to my work schedule. We are only wanting to eliminate the long distance. As far as... (read in full...)

Her mother has waged a war against me!!!

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for a good 8 months now. Everything is good except her mom. I am 18 years old, shipping off to the Air Force this summer. My girlfriend is 17. A little background information: My girlfriend is Hispanic and her...

A.   21 February 2011: Thanks for the help, much appreciated. I followed your advice, and it seems to be working out very well for me.... (read in full...)

Her mother has waged a war against me!!!

Q.   I have been dating my girlfriend for a good 8 months now. Everything is good except her mom. I am 18 years old, shipping off to the Air Force this summer. My girlfriend is 17. A little background information: My girlfriend is Hispanic and her...

A.   7 February 2011: Minor correction: "...since my girlfriend's aunt and *grandfather* have both been making odd comments about me."... (read in full...)

It just disgusts, saddens, and makes me depressed everytime I think about my girlfriend's past

Q.   So this is kind of a interesting situation. My girlfriend is 16 years old, and I am 18 years old. We have been in a steady relationship for about a year now. I have been having problems getting over her past. At one time, she got mixed into the w...

A.   31 December 2010: Just wanted to thank everyone for their help! eddie85 - I think you're right about it diminishing. Time heals all wounds (or so I hope). Thanks! Abella - Quite correct on the lovely woman part. I don't throw a guilt trip - 98% of time I strugg... (read in full...)

Is this how an orgasm is supposed to feel?

Q.   Okay, i just wanted to know what exactly an orgasm is. I'm a virgin, but i have fingered myself before. In the act, there is a point where my body basically goes numb. I feel my muscles tighten and my clit open and close. It's like i lose complete...

A.   28 December 2010: Yes, that is an orgasm. ;) And a word of extra advice (a bit off topic) - don't give up your virginity to a guy unless you KNOW you want. You'll regret it if you don't. Cheers.... (read in full...)

It just disgusts, saddens, and makes me depressed everytime I think about my girlfriend's past

Q.   So this is kind of a interesting situation. My girlfriend is 16 years old, and I am 18 years old. We have been in a steady relationship for about a year now. I have been having problems getting over her past. At one time, she got mixed into the w...

A.   28 December 2010: I also give her plenty of encouragement and always tell her how proud I am of her. I am very proud of her, I mean how many people can knock that lifestyle cold turkey? She makes me proud everyday of the life she leads today, I just hate the images ... (read in full...)

It just disgusts, saddens, and makes me depressed everytime I think about my girlfriend's past

Q.   So this is kind of a interesting situation. My girlfriend is 16 years old, and I am 18 years old. We have been in a steady relationship for about a year now. I have been having problems getting over her past. At one time, she got mixed into the w...

A.   28 December 2010: To clarify, I never send her on a guilt trip about it but I usually try to talk to her about how I can't stop thinking about it. Usually this stems from another thing...I'm shipping out to the Air Force in July and want to make sure she keeps clean. ... (read in full...)

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