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writes:Okay, i just wanted to know what exactly an orgasm is.I'm a virgin, but i have fingered myself before. In the act, there is a point where my body basically goes numb. I feel my muscles tighten and my clit open and close. It's like i lose complete control of my body. Is that an orgasm?And also, what does it mean when a girl doesn't moan? I know most guys like girls who moan. I've only experienced hard breathing. How can i get myself to moan without faking it?
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reader, KomradeKhaos +, writes (28 December 2010):
Yes, that is an orgasm. ;)
And a word of extra advice (a bit off topic) - don't give up your virginity to a guy unless you KNOW you want. You'll regret it if you don't. Cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): Do you then feel a sudden release? yep sounds like an orgasm to me. I didn't know if I was having an "orgasm" or not either until I was an adult. And I had been having them since I was 14. But different stimulations feel different. And yet the response of your body is usually the same. If you don't feel a physical 'aaaaaah' you are probably not having a complete orgasm, make sure you follow it through even though your body feels out of control.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Sounds like a typical orgasm, but orgasms are different from person to person. Don't worry about pleasing a guy, you need to know what pleases you so you can fill the future guy in on what you like in bed.
As for the moaning, don't force yourself to moan because that's what you think is right, some guys don't like it when a girl moans or is excessively loud in bed, it just depends. Don't fake or the guy will think he is doing an amazing job and you will be disappointed.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 December 2010):
 That sounds like an orgasm to me.
As for moaning, not everyone does it. I'm typically pretty quiet too. But, I have found that when I moan, the feeling is more intense. It usually starts being mixed in with the heavy breathing. Focus on the feeling and do what feels natural.
Some of my GF's have been vocal, others haven't. Neither has bothered me. We just like feedback. Moans often signify that you're enjoying what we're doing, but if we know that already, the are unnecessary.
Don't worry about what guys will like, just worry about learning what you like. Then, when you're ready, you can help guide a guy to get you off. You may surprise yourself what noises you make when that happens someday.
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