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Does he have an anger management problem?

Q.   My husband is normally a loving caring man, but once in a while he looses control of his anger and verbally explodes. He often does this over seemingly small things. It doesn't bother him if our 3 year old daughter is around, or if he is in a publ...

A.   1 May 2008: Sounds to me as it is his way of venting. Not a very good one. Has this always been the case with you two? If not, something is bothering him that needs to come out. Either way, you both need to find a more constructive way for him to deal ... (read in full...)

What turns men on when they masturbate?

Q.   What do married men think about when masturbating to porn or thinking about another women????? (mod note: this first passage was virtually unintelligble so I have given it my best guess) PLease help??? Do they want the same thing with their ...

A.   30 April 2008: Most of the time (and some will disagree), it is the exotic fantasy that excites them. Find out what he likes and do it. Dress up, or down, make it exotic. Do things that are spontaneous, mix it up from the norm and take it to another level. ... (read in full...)

He won't go down on me anymore, he says we are too old, what gives?

Q.   My husband wont go down on me anymore. We have been together for 14 yrs. He says we are not kids any more, he is 32 i am 35. I would be willing to give him a bj but he has never liked them. I dont orgasm from intercourse only clitoral stimulation. ...

A.   30 April 2008: From personal exp. I love it!!!!! For some reason that there is no way in hell I could explain - it isn't pleasuring him. I would suggest counseling. Putting 14 years into a relationship is worth it. Find out why it doesn't turn him on. Fix... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my girlfriend and her brother! help!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am in a situation. I've always been straight but fell in love with my best friend who is a female. i dont know how it happened but we've been together for two years now and we are deeply in love. My problem is that before we g...

A.   30 April 2008: You are gonna have to figure out if you are a 1 person kinda girl. If not and everyone is okay, fire up. Might want to make sure everyone is on board tho. From the sounds of it, you are going to end up hurting people including yourself. Is that... (read in full...)

She wont sleep with a married man, what do I do?

Q.   I have been somewhat happily married for almost 9 yrs. now. I love my wife very very much, however we rarely have sex anymore due to wife's lack of interest! I have talked, begged, pleaded, and have done everything I know to do to help her "get in ...

A.   30 April 2008: Have you talked to your wife about this? Might want to get her views first, after all you did take an oath! Sort your own stuff out first, then go for the gold. Maybe your wife thinks you suck in bed so she has gone elsewhere to satisfy her n... (read in full...)

He promised he wouldnt, but he's still looking at other girls, help!

Q.   How do i trust my boyfriend again after he has lied so much? My boyfriend carried on looking at other girls even though he said that he wasn't, he seen how much it was hurting me yet he continued to do it, and lie about it again and again. Now my ...

A.   30 April 2008: Ummm.... First off, this isn't your fault. Second, doing the same thing he is doing to get him back will only result in a competition I don't think you want. It isn't healthy and it is childish. Communication is the key here. Your post is ... (read in full...)

What ideas do you have for us to talk to her parents constructively about our age gap?

Q.   Hi, I am 32 and she is 17. We are having issues with her parents agreeing for us to see each other. I realize everyone has their opinion on my intent and her being young, but that isn't the question. My intent is for us to be together. ...

A.   18 March 2008: Thank you all that posted advice, it really helps a lot. Mariah and I met totally by chance. Our story of how we met and began dating is one that is truly amazing. I left out details of how we met and why we love each other so much because ... (read in full...)

What ideas do you have for us to talk to her parents constructively about our age gap?

Q.   Hi, I am 32 and she is 17. We are having issues with her parents agreeing for us to see each other. I realize everyone has their opinion on my intent and her being young, but that isn't the question. My intent is for us to be together. ...

A.   15 March 2008: Me dating my baby doll is legal, she is of legal age. I am confused as to why I am "perverted, selfish sick!" You do not know me, so there is no way you can possibly know that. Yes, the maturity gap will shrink. In 10 months? Be serious! ... (read in full...)

What ideas do you have for us to talk to her parents constructively about our age gap?

Q.   Hi, I am 32 and she is 17. We are having issues with her parents agreeing for us to see each other. I realize everyone has their opinion on my intent and her being young, but that isn't the question. My intent is for us to be together. ...

A.   14 March 2008: update.... That is our dilema, people keep going off saying how wrong it is and that we should wait until she is 18. If we wait till she is 18 there is still the same age gap. Yes when she is 18 she can do what she wants and it wont matter what ... (read in full...)

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