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Am I doing the right thing, am I being unreasonalbe? I gave him 100% of me and I know in my gut I'm only getting 50% back.

Q.   I came out of an engagement last year, it was a 6 year relationship and ended with me kissing someone else and realising that I wasnt getting what I wanted from my fiance. It hurt considerably to break it off. There was a lot of security involved, ...

A.   7 September 2007: What you did is the hardest thing you ever have to do in a relationship walking away to see if they chase after you can go either way. But you did the right thing you know how you felt which would have made it hard on you but you weren't sure how he ... (read in full...)

He bled during oral sex--what could these mean?

Q.   i have known this guy for a little while we get along really well and have a lot in common. He is a really lovely guy that takes my breath away. In the weekend we flirted the whole time we were at this party and finally ended up kissing. This kiss ...

A.   25 June 2007: Thanks for the feedback i went and got checked for everything yesterday as a precaution. ... (read in full...)

My best friend recently started seeing my brother :-(

Q.   hey my best friend has recently started seeing my brother, i really don't like it, she knows i don't, he knows i don't, but he thinks that she is fit and she likes the chase and the fact that yet another person likes her. since she has started ...

A.   7 June 2007: You have to seriously look at your freind and work out if she really is a freind or not ... My "best" freind started to go out with a guy that she knew i liked because i told her, i then had the same feelings that you have now ... What good is a ... (read in full...)

I broke up with my bf, then he called me I was angry so I didn't pick up, So later I called him back and he blanked me! I'm so confused! What does he want?

Q.   My ex broke up with me about a week and a half ago. In this relationship, he has been nothing but rude to me and he treats me so horrible when I was being nice to him all the time. He was so emotionally and verbally abusive to me for the last 2 ...

A.   18 January 2007: You know what he wants a reaction ... The saying don't know what you've got till its gone comes to mind and trust me he knows it now...You didn't go running back which is the different to normal and what he wants you to be doing, as you havent he ... (read in full...)

For the past 2 years it's like we've been going out, but with no intimacy. She said she doesn't want a bf - what should I do?

Q.   I'm so confused about my best mate. Help. When I came to Uni I met a girl and we got on great. She split up with her boyfriend that christmas and for the next 2 years we appeared to be going out but not actually having any intimate moments...

A.   13 December 2006: Go out and date other girls live up your time at uni while you still have it. You've been in this bubble for two years and although you like/love this girl its not going anyware. you will know if she really cares when you move on as its only when ... (read in full...)

i want more from my bed buddy !

Q.   How can i be more than a fu@* buddy? I gave this guy a blowjob but i really like him ive known him for 4 weeks and each time we see each other we flirt like crazy. The problem is.. he has loads of girls and he calls them his b****** they call him up ...

A.   15 November 2006: If you like him and wanna get down with him do it if it feels right but make sure you can handle cas wit out getting to involved and focus on making yourself a little unavaliable to him . Guys always want what they carn't have it's part of their and ... (read in full...)

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