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writes:heymy best friend has recently started seeing my brother, i really don't like it, she knows i don't, he knows i don't, but he thinks that she is fit and she likes the chase and the fact that yet another person likes her. since she has started seeing my brother, we never talk and i don't trust her anymore, she omits details about whether something has happened and then says that omitting the truth is not the same as lying. i know they won't last because they are totally not compatible, but because i made a fuss to begin with even she has admitted that it made it more interesting for her. i don't want to lose her or my brother, but i can't handle the 2 of them being together. what do i do?
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reader, katybear  +, writes (7 June 2007):
You have to seriously look at your freind and work out if she really is a freind or not ... My "best" freind started to go out with a guy that she knew i liked because i told her, i then had the same feelings that you have now ... What good is a selfish freind ask yourself that as ahe doesn't have your intentions at heart or really care that she is hurting you... Your friend is worse then mine was as she is going out with your brother which isn't someone that you can just walk away from and leave out of your life till their relationship falls apart which it will do... Move on and find new friends cos this girl is bad news, you will never fully forgive her because of what she has done and the fact that she is selfish and her needs are obviously more important then yours in her eyes illustrates a trend that will keep coming back and catching you out. be careful and weary of people like her they can cause you a lot of pain in their quest for happiness.
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reader, Variety +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Leave them to it. The more you make a fuss the more they will want to be together. If you are spending time together say that you don't want to know what is going on between them. Act like you don't care.
The thing is you can't controll who your brother and your friend go out with. Some people would say you have no right being upset. I don't necessarily agree but there isn't a lot you can do. Your friend is taking a huge risk here because if anything goes wrong then it will be weird for her seeing you anymore.
Message me if you need to talk. x
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