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I hate myself for cheating, but I cannot seem to stop! I need to understand why I am doing this...

Q.   Ok, i know people will have little sympathy for me but I cannot stay faithful. My parents died when I was 3 and I was raised by my aunt and uncle who never really had much time for me. They were'nt affectionate and in some ways seemed to resent...

A.   11 July 2008: Hi there Don't look for verification that you are worth something from other people. Esp encounters with men. They will tell you what you want to hear to get you into bed. It is almost addictive. Then you wont believe them and move on to hear anot... (read in full...)

Is a curved penis a problem, or am I over reacting?

Q.   my penis curves slightly to the left (about 9 inches if that means anything) is this normal?...

A.   4 July 2008: No it is normal. Most men's penises curve slightly when erect.... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend says there are rumours my new guy has HIV. Is he lying? If not, what are the risks for me?

Q.   I just met this boy, his name is Derrick. Even though, I don't know him as well as I'd like to. He has really seem to grow on me and I think that someday our relationship could go a step further. Well at least, I'd like to hope so. A previous boy...

A.   4 July 2008: Hi there He may be doing it out of spite, but you cant really know until he has been tested. Suggest going together. IF someone has HIV there is always a chance of getting it. Even with barrier protected sex. (ie condoms for penetration,... (read in full...)

Financially dependent on her, using her for sex, hating myself, what do I do?

Q.   Wow, so I am in a really bad situation. It really sucks, and I feel like SUCH an asshole for not doing anything about it. Basically, I am in a relationship that I dont want to be in. I dont like her, I for sure dont love her, and I only am with her ...

A.   4 July 2008: The thing is you said it... "And if I start there I might as well continue." That is the way with most bad behaviour. You do it the first time, and you feel awful. After that, everytime you do it, you feel bad, but a little less so... And af... (read in full...)

What should I do - she doesn't like roller coasters, should we break up?

Q.   I've been going out with my GF for a year a a few months, i think she's great and we have alot in common.I found out recently that she doesn't like roller coasters (although she has only been on one). The problem is i absolutely love roller c...

A.   29 June 2008: I kinda understand what you mean... You have a passion and you want someone to share it with you. Sit next to you, hold your hand, scream down the scarey bits. And when you stop, look at and say "Wow, that was awesome, lets do it again!" But l... (read in full...)

My husband always waits until I am at breaking point to say how sorry he is, the niceness then lasts for only weeks! I'm at my wit's end!

Q.   i have been with my husband for ten years, married six. we have 2 kids. sex was never brilliant, he has ed, but the first year was great, then it slowly got worse. i will cut this down for the average reader!!! I have over the years caught him ...

A.   11 June 2008: HI there I was married to an abusive man. What is very hard to understand is that they have such a nice side too. It just doesn't make sense. How can someone who smiles and laughs with your parents and friends, give money to beggars on the stre... (read in full...)

Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?

Q.   I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il ...

A.   7 June 2008: I dated a man like that... He kinda planned lots of things and seemed to include me. When WE have a house one day, where do you want it... When WE go up the west coast next, we have to stay at this great place I know by the beach... When I buy... (read in full...)

What's wrong with me? I want to argue with him!

Q.   I'm in a great relationship, my partner couldn't be better for me, he treats me great he's not over protective...I could go on forever about how fabulous he is. Now a little back ground, my last relationship was very abusive mentally, physical...

A.   3 June 2008: Hi. I can definately relate! I was in an abusive relationship. And when i found my new husband, who is completely opposite, I would rant and rave at him for no reason. And he was so sweet about it. I finally figured out that I wanted to make him ... (read in full...)

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