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Can fancying someone or being in love affect or damage your body in any way?

Q.   Can fancying someone or being in love affect or damage your body in any way? I'm asking this as whenever i'm in love with someone or just fancy them i get butterflies in my stomach. Can that affect you? And the beating of the heart can also be so ...

A.   14 May 2007: If you are experiencing anxiety, depression or some sort of post traumatic stress disorder as a result of something in terms of fear or distress from a relationship- then yes it does affect your body. The chemistry of your brain is reprogrammed- so ... (read in full...)

Now it is difficult for me to find some person who can share this sense of loneliness inside me. I wonder what should i do?

Q.   I am 25 yrs old guy and have had a bad patch of suffering from loneliness while i was in my final year of college. Then i met this girl online who seem to had similar issues. The difference was, that she was quite obsessive in her approach to meet ...

A.   23 April 2007: Ok, not to freak you out, but you sound exactly like me. I am 20 and I was abused as a child and I have recentally been going to counceling to deal with "standing up for myself" as I have always put everyone elses needs before my own, and I have ... (read in full...)

Shall I mix work with pleasure with work at the xmas party!?

Q.   Hi, I really like this guy at work, we sometimes chat when we see each other on breaks etc and on e-mail, I have just found out he is single, what should I do next? We have a Christmas Party coming up in 5 weeks, should I wait until then as I don't ...

A.   10 November 2006: Be prepared though if it ends bitter and it doesnt work out... you still have to see him everyday at work- keep that in mind.... (read in full...)

Ive fallen for a close friend, she just wants to be friends, but I really love her!

Q.   I've fallen in love with a close friend. She's a genius, she's funny, she's kind, she speaks 5 fluent languages and she's the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. A few months ago, just before I found out she was with another guy, I tried to tell ...

A.   6 September 2006: My best friend is a guy and he says the same thing about me.. but its sad because I think hes very repulsive and I like him only as a friend. It may be too hard for you to continue being friends with her if your feelings keep comming back. If you ... (read in full...)

My friend says I should make a move on this girl I like..but I'm afraid of rejection! What should I do?

Q.   i'm 19, and the girl in question is 18. i have know her for about 4 years, she was my gf briefly in the past. we always stayed friends. in the past 5 months we started talking a lot more on the phone and texting each other. after a while i got the ...

A.   31 August 2006: go with your gut not what you want. being impulsive wont help you and over all GO SLOWWWWWWW especially since you arent sure.... (read in full...)

First time I asked I got knocked back for being 'ugly', but now I want to ask her out again...

Q.   I have never had a girlfriend before and the only girl I wanted said no, she wouldn't go out with me because I'm ugly. That was a long time ago. I would like to know if me asking her out again will ruin my friendship with her or make her in any w...

A.   8 July 2006: If you are that good of friens wth her jokingly say the next time you hang out "so you still think Im ugly?" then in that situation she will usually tell the truth( saying yes if you are friends cant be bad.) But other wise watch it because most ... (read in full...)

Why is everything so awkward between us all of a sudden?

Q.   I have been talking to this girl for about 5 months now, and at first everything was great, I liked her, she liked me, but he everything became very awkward all of a sudden. I am still completely in love with her and i finally asked her how she ...

A.   16 June 2006: If I were you, I woudl jsut confront the whole situation, say you care about her and dont want her to get scared, and that you enjoyed the friendship you have and its ok if nothing more comes. Just approach it cautiously and on her behlaf.She may ... (read in full...)

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