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writes: I have been talking to this girl for about 5 months now, and at first everything was great, I liked her, she liked me, but he everything became very awkward all of a sudden. I am still completely in love with her and i finally asked her how she felt and she got very upset and told me she didnt know and we have not spoken since. How do I get the relationship back to the way it used to be? And do you have any idea about why she may have become so angry? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kanda  +, writes (16 June 2006):
If I were you, I woudl jsut confront the whole situation, say you care about her and dont want her to get scared, and that you enjoyed the friendship you have and its ok if nothing more comes. Just approach it cautiously and on her behlaf.She may have a strong reaction as a result of an emotional association, or she may be suprised you like her and it was unexpected.Either way assure her that its ok and wanted to be friends again.
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Hey huni,
Maybe there is another guy or maybe she jus got scared and thought she was gettin to close to you wen she wasnt ready for a relationship i used to date guys n then when things got serious run for the hills, try askin her whats happend if its something you have done or if she is meeting someone else your never goin to know unless you ask. Good Luck
Helen x
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (14 June 2006):
 I don't want to jump to conclusions but what the hell!!! I think there is more than likely another horse in your stable. All the things that she enjoyed that you shared, if she's not sharing it with you she's sharing it with someone. I mean she hasn't stopped enjoying those things. Maybe, she just doesn't like you like that and wants to break up but doesn't want to hurt you so she is now very frustrated and by you asking her she knows something is wrong and it lets her know that you recognize and it pushes her into making a decision, which she doesn't want to do. Be patient and let it unfold but don't press her. Good Luck.
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