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writes: I have never had a girlfriend before and the only girl I wanted said no, she wouldn't go out with me because I'm ugly. That was a long time ago. I would like to know if me asking her out again will ruin my friendship with her or make her in any way uncomfortable, as I have asked out girls before and they said maybe. Plzzz help me with my problem.
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reader, Kanda  +, writes (8 July 2006):
If you are that good of friens wth her jokingly say the next time you hang out "so you still think Im ugly?" then in that situation she will usually tell the truth( saying yes if you are friends cant be bad.) But other wise watch it because most likely its you who is keeping the friendship together only because you like her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2006): It's obvious that you have forgiven her, for her past comment. This says a lot about who you truely are and I think you have a good heart, hun. One builds character by responding positively and proactively to the life situations they face. Although it was very rude, unthinking behaviour on her part..it's likely she was very immature at that time. If you both are friends, then it's likely you both have gotten to know each well enough to feel comfortable. Talk to her and find out if she will date you. Yes, it's a risk, she might say no-she might say yes! But you won't know until you just ask her. Good luck and I wish you the best!
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