I'm tired of the imbalance between my sex life with myself vs. sex life with a partner
Q. When I am by myself, I am able to get myself off in about 5 minutes. Probably less. I can multiple orgasm for hours. My solo sex life is very healthy, but I have never been able to transfer that level to the bedroom of another. I have been dating ...
A. 12 December 2016: Hi, enjoy both the sex with your partner because it is with your partner for tenderness and togetherness, and also alone. You do not have to just do one or the other. You are not alone with this situation, but relax and accept it.... (read in full...)
Am I settling? I'm 24 years old. Is it asking too much, to want more than this?
Q. I've been cooped up in the house for months on end and he doesn't bat an eye about it. He never takes me out or does anything with me besides eat sleep and watch movies. That's it that's all we ever do literally. I mean everyone works so wh...
A. 12 December 2016: It doesn't sound to me as if you are with a person who makes you happy. We are only on this planet to reproduce and be happy.... (read in full...)
Is this sex?
Q. So me and my boyfriend were both in our underwear just simply rubbing and grinding. No intercourse. BUT, he slid my panty aside and stuck it in but he still had his boxers on... he maybe stuck a inch in but it was inside but not skin on skin. Im ...
A. 12 December 2016: Yes, it is of course sex, the same as if he was wearing a condom.... (read in full...)
I want people's opinions on friendships with the opposite sex
Q. My friends and I were having a discussion the other day about opposite sex friendships and dating. I was curious about the different perspectives of opposite sex friendships. My guy friends argued that a woman with a lot of guy friends is unaware ...
A. 12 December 2016: Men will more often than not want to spend time talking with women that they are attracted to physically and would therefore be happy to jump into bed with.
Men with alot of female friends are either attractive mentally or physically, or brin... (read in full...)
Does anyone have tips on how to be positive?
Q. I have been going to therapy for a while and the last couple of months it's been a sting of awful evens that have made I guess have a wake up call- from my doctors main issue is that I look at everything in a negative way- life love career - ...
A. 12 December 2016: Hi, we all have a choice. Do we try to look at the positive, 'happy go lucky' angle or the neurotic negative. Do we sit in the middle with a wise,balanced and perhaps more realistic view.
I suppose you need to ask yourself how it serves you to t... (read in full...)
Facing dental work and afraid I'll have a nervous breakdown!
Q. This is going to be a very hard night for me. I have always been obsessed, literally obsessed with my teeth. Yet, cursed with bad genetics, so despite my taking care of my teeth I have had fillings and veneers since I was a teen... even earlier. I ...
A. 3 December 2016: Hello,
firstly, get a second opinion. After that, it is about the health of your mouth and the way that it looks. Just imagine, there are people out there with life threatening situations, this is small fry, and you will find the strength, and be s... (read in full...)
Have never loved my wife of 19 years, I want to leave
Q. I am 39 years old married to 39 year old wife for 19 years. We have been together since High School, we dated for four years before getting married. I don't know if I am having a "mid-life crisis" or what, but I have been unable to shake thoughts ...
A. 2 December 2016: Hello,
your comment is old, but what happened? Are you still with your wife?... (read in full...)
Is it shallow to want to break up with someone because they lack intelligence?
Q. It's is shallow to want to break up with someone because they lack intelligence? I'm having a hard time being in this relationship because my boyfriend's lack of intelligence and common sense. His decision making is poor, and his mental capacity is ...
A. 2 December 2016: Hello,
your partner sounds very much like my husband who I would describe in the same way as you have, the same. My husband has Aspergers Syndrome and the lack of wisdom, general intelligence and common sense drives me mad, but he cannot help it. ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether I should take her back or not!
Q. My girlfriend is in the us at college and I'm in the uk working, we are both British and 18 and have been together for a year. She met a friend at college very soon at August time (let's call him Jim) and he was just a friend, she told me this...
A. 2 December 2016: Hi, reading your comment, you love her, you want her back. To reflect your question to you, how can you accept a girl back who has lied and deceived you? Answer, because of the first sentence and your wonderful year together. However, you ... (read in full...)
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