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Pleased to meet you, my name is Jumby (Actually...no it isn't but its a nickname I'm rather fond of). I'm a 22 year old Psychology masters student from England who also works full time in a department store...a hectic life but I enjoy every second of it!
About me, well I'm apparently a rather likeable person if not slightly random (the term most often used to describe me is 'unique'). I like to make people laugh, and my friends mean the world to me. In fact, they're my inspiration for signing up! I've always loved helping people, and like to give advice whenever I can and always attempt to look at situations with an open mind. So if you want sensitive, honest and non judgemental advice I'm your girl :-) |
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So many things are getting me down right now
Q. so me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up last week and were staying close friends which im happy about but we were going to move in together after we had to leave uni halls obv now were not. i dont want to live in halls again or a house share and ...
A. 14 April 2010: Oh hun there's a lot going on in your life and I know it must be scary, sometimes it all gets too much and you don't know if your coming or going! Firstly its good you've got a great support network, over the next few months you'l find that they ... (read in full...)
Are they laughing at me?
Q. Every time I hang out with this girl and her sister, they laugh at all my jokes, but they constantly look at each other like there's some sort of in-joke. What's the deal??!! Are they laughing at me? She keeps asking me to do things, so I don't ...
A. 14 April 2010: If they're laughing at what your saying I'd take it as a good sign! the glances to each other could be that one of them quite likes you and that's why she's shooting glances at her sister. Best way to confirm if they like you is to watch for key ... (read in full...)
Should I be there for him or give him space?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I had been gong out for a year and a half, and then about 5 months ago his 18 year old brother was diagnosed with leukaemia. We broke up about two months ago, when his brother starting to get really sick. Around this time my ex ...
A. 14 April 2010: aw hun this is an incredibly hard situation to be in, he is likely to want space however at the same time I'm sure he'd really appreciate that your there for him. What I would do is perhaps make or buy a small 'thinking of you card' just saying your ... (read in full...)
Fear of being in a relationship..
Q. I really need some advice because I feel like I'm too screwed up for relationships and yet I want to be in one so badly. My first boyfriend put a lot of pressure on me to do sexual things in our short relationship, and though I liked him, I nev...
A. 13 April 2010: Hun you should never feel pressured into anything sexual, when your ready and with the right person these fears will be put to rest. Your ex had no right to put so much pressure on you and its understandable why sex and relationships are so scary as ... (read in full...)
I pushed her away, but now I want her back and she wont reply.
Q. we dated 5years back.while in high school.our love was so real that we won the award for the best couple.a year after graduation,we parted ways but without any breakup or fight.we just lost contact and it remained so until few weeks back when she ...
A. 13 April 2010: Ok I've been in a similar situation before and it does hurt and is incredibly frustrating but hang in there, things do get easier.
You didn't mean to hurt her and that's completley understandable. Your feelings became too intense and you reacted ... (read in full...)
I am so lonely, how do I get a boyfriend?
Q. iam alone i dont have boyfriend for along time and iam now 23 but i feel like i will stay alone all my life and you know all the people say that iam pretty girl but i dont know why guys avoiding me so my question is what do i have to do to have ...
A. 13 April 2010: I can relate to how lonely it feels, and trust me it does get easier! What you need to do hun is follow a few basic steps and whilst I can't gurantee you a boyfriend from them, I can assure you it will enhance your self worth and you'll find it ... (read in full...)
I am so lonely, how do I get a boyfriend?
Q. iam alone i dont have boyfriend for along time and iam now 23 but i feel like i will stay alone all my life and you know all the people say that iam pretty girl but i dont know why guys avoiding me so my question is what do i have to do to have ...
A. 13 April 2010: I can relate to how lonely it feels, and trust me it does get easier! What you need to do hun is follow a few basic steps and whilst I can't gurantee you a boyfriend from them, I can assure you it will enhance your self worth and you'll find it ... (read in full...)
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