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Are they laughing at me?

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Question - (14 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Every time I hang out with this girl and her sister, they laugh at all my jokes, but they constantly look at each other like there's some sort of in-joke. What's the deal??!! Are they laughing at me? She keeps asking me to do things, so I don't think she thinks I'm goofy. I had them going pretty good today and wanted to catch her eye, but she kept looking at her sister. bah!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010):

She has a crush on you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010):

so when you say something they look at eachother with their chins down a bit, their lips pursed to stifle a smile, maybe hold their breath(you can tell because their shoulders go forward & up), and their eyes flash wide then the lower lids come up and they crinkle at the corners?

Sounds like an inside joke to me. Be optimistic, maybe one girl has a crush and they are joking about that. I'm meaning that maybe its not about you, but involving you.

Which girl is the reason that you hang out with them? Don't lie, you favor one. Get her alone and see how it goes. Without someone to confide silently with she may reveal whats so funny.

P.S. My boyfriend jokes about how amazing it is that my bestie and I can know exactly what the other is saying with a look. It's a mystery you may never crack!

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A female reader, Jumby United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2010):

Jumby agony auntIf they're laughing at what your saying I'd take it as a good sign! the glances to each other could be that one of them quite likes you and that's why she's shooting glances at her sister.

Best way to confirm if they like you is to watch for key body language signals. With girls its slightly harder to denote whether they are attracted to you, but their body language often gives it away. Aside from the usual things such as fiddleing with their hair, jewelry and clothes watch for eye contact. Instead of trying to catch her eye glance when she's not expecting it and if she blushes and looks away, or holds eye contact slightly longer that's a sign of attraction. So are dilated pupils and open body language (for example displaying the wrists, mirroring your body language and having her feet pointed towards you) and being touchy feely (hand on your wrist or arm is the most obvious indicator).

I'd watch for these signs in both of them, never know it might be her sister that quite likes you!

Hope this helps :-)

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