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My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?

Q.   My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?...

A.   11 December 2008: If you have to ask the question,the answer is no... (read in full...)

How do I help my love realize that I'm all she needs?

Q.   Hello. I'm new here and very desperate for my relationship to work. I have a girl and she's in college. We have been together for 4 years. Our relationship is a serious one as well. We even planned our future out together. I love her so much and she ...

A.   10 December 2008: Its not really as easy as a simple answer. You need to be yourself and explain to her just what she means to you.Dont be too soft though as you should make it clear to her that you wont tolerate any cheating etc. The only answer i can really s... (read in full...)

Seeing my wife with another man (3some) was hard enough, imagining her with another man solo is killing me!

Q.   Ok my wife and I have been married for 13 years, we have had lots of trouble in the past, for the past two years she has hinted about wanting to sleep with another man. Now I have had my fair shares of adultry in our marriage but in all honesty I ...

A.   9 December 2008: You need to be strong and tell your wife that whats happened in the past is the past!! what matters is now and the future and i think you need to be honest with her and explain that you only need her in your life and that it hurts you deeply to even ... (read in full...)

"Fiancee" troubles...

Q.   Me and my fiencee have been together for 15 months. I call him he never answer phone most of the time. We use to spend alot of time together. I havnt seen him for 3 weeks i miss him and love him so much. It seems all he wants is sex. I no thats not ...

A.   9 December 2008: It does seem a little strange,Although i believe we all need our own space even though you dont see each other much it maybe that he just needs time for himself etc. The only way to tell would be to sit and talk to him face to face or try and dist... (read in full...)

Have I already blown my chance with her?

Q.   Hello everyone,Im a guy of 23 and got chatting to a really great girl who is 18 via a dating site and we hit it off straight away. To keep this as short as possible. We met up and went on a couple of really fantastic dates and i felt we real...

A.   9 December 2008: I sent her a email and a text today but no response. I guess i have been abit too forward,she is such a great girl but i know i cant blame myself. Do you guys think thats it or should i just remain silent now for the next week?... (read in full...)

Should I even meet her when she's messing me about?

Q.   Ok here's my situation: I've got to know this girl through a friend and we've mostly just been speaking on msn but we have seen each other around and about town. Anyway she recently split up wth her bf and we kinda both told each uther we li...

A.   8 December 2008: Yep i agree,hard to get is the right way forward mate If she's interested she will chase you Jon... (read in full...)

14, pregnant and terrified!!!

Q.   Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?...

A.   7 December 2008: You need to be honest with your mum. She brought you into this world herself and you will feel a million times better after the shock has past. She really needs to know as you need her support hun Hope you take this advice Jon... (read in full...)

Have I already blown my chance with her?

Q.   Hello everyone,Im a guy of 23 and got chatting to a really great girl who is 18 via a dating site and we hit it off straight away. To keep this as short as possible. We met up and went on a couple of really fantastic dates and i felt we real...

A.   7 December 2008: Well in my eye's she knows exactly how i feel and i just have to wait now and see if she does get back in touch in the near future,she would be worth the wait 100% but i think i did the right thing by cutting contact because i dont want to end up as ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want to talk to me any more!

Q.   Hello, I love my girlfriend too much, some time ago she also loved me but now she told me that she don't like me. Now she told me that she wants to live her own life, when I say ok she starts calling her old ex boyfrnd and she talks every day when ...

A.   7 December 2008: Your best bet is to play it cool. Ever heard of the saying "A hungry dog never gets fed" If you act too clingy you are playing into her hands. No contact for one week!! Jon... (read in full...)

Have I already blown my chance with her?

Q.   Hello everyone,Im a guy of 23 and got chatting to a really great girl who is 18 via a dating site and we hit it off straight away. To keep this as short as possible. We met up and went on a couple of really fantastic dates and i felt we real...

A.   7 December 2008: Thanks for such quick response's Well in my eye's she knows exactly how i feel and i just have to wait now and see if she does get back in touch in the near future,she would be worth the wait 100% but i think i did the right thing by cutting cont... (read in full...)

She didn't call back re our date.

Q.   Hi so I text this girl I've known a while and asked her to meet me for coffee, she said she was busy that day but suggested another day or a week later. So I texted back and said "ok next week Friday. bye." I was waiting for her reply but she didn't ...

A.   7 December 2008: I agree,better left alone this one. If a girl is interested you she will get in touch. I give you huge credit for not calling her very often though,that takes alot of resistance. Nice one Jon... (read in full...)

If a man reveals his affections to the woman too soon, can this kill his chances of a relationship?

Q.   Hi. Fifthquadrant here. This may sound a bit ridiculous/cheesy, but I was just wondering whether there are any women out there who have actually been willing to have a first date with a guy AFTER he has actually told her face to face that he 'likes ...

A.   7 December 2008: I totally agree with what you said mate. Check out my question and you will see that by chasing too quickly and showing how much you like a girl early on sometimes just doesnt work = ( Jon ... (read in full...)

Am I reading too much into the vibes I get from her?

Q.   Hi Dear Cupid readers. I've got a problem! Hence why I'm here!! I've got this huge attraction to another woman... I'd even go so far as to say I'm in love with her. I want to tell her because this is killing me. Problem is, I don't know how she...

A.   7 December 2008: Hey mate, I would suggest that you should meet up and explain to her how you feel,its really the only way you are going to know if she really feels the same for you. Just be prepared for a setback as you really wont know how she feels until yo... (read in full...)

How to prove I will never lie or cheat again as I found real love with her?

Q.   hello, im having a problem with my girlfriend and its all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship,i ve cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why i did all this to her, though i lied because i dont want to lose her, ...

A.   7 December 2008: Hey mate, What you need to do is get her to listen to you first of all.You need to be able to pour your heart out to this girl and tell her that she is the one and REALLY mean it from the bottom of your heart. Sometimes there simply is no going ba... (read in full...)

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